Boundaries

[evilgrins]

7:40 PM 1/2/07 · There are a number of people who feel I have no boundaries and when suddenly evidence pops up of one I get stunned gasps from all over the place. The thing of it is that I do have very few, at least in contrast to most folks, probably because I am so blatantly honest and I have very few inhibitions. I mean I've had sex in front of

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[ms_will_b_happy]

As per usual I have a whole bunch of questions, sorry ;-)

What's the sex club thing like? I'm so curious. But not curious enough to go but still.

Maybe people try to get you to have sex when you're sick because they think you puking up on them whilst doing it was a turn on? [I don't mean to freak you out but it could be, like those people who like to be crapped on and stuff]What's the wierdest thing someone's been turned on by? I know I'm nosy, but still.

When it comes to the 'N' word, I use it. But it depends on who I'm around. I feel like if you're not black or mixed with black then you shouldn't use it. But if you are, then I don't really care. I don't use it around anyone who isn't black/mixed with black 'cos I don't want them to think it's ok for them to use it.

I think you're right though. People who hate people based on hearsay aren't worthy of respect. I mean it's one thing to have an opinion on something someone's done, but to hate a friend's friend who you haven't even met, unless they're a child molester or something is just dumb (celebrities excluded). People should think for themselves. Especially when a lot of the time what you hear about someone is exaggerated or bulls..t.

[evilgrins]

Sex clubs: I've actually been to only one event once (was kinda disgusted), 2 panssexual house parties, and was a regular at the Power Exchange for a few years. It's not an easy question to answer because there's a wide range of dynamics. I may do a post on this but until then more specific questions would help.

Wasn't a puking kinda sick but thank you for that very disturbing image so soon before my lunch break (Ew). Anyway, she was not a fan of puke.

I'll never like the "N" word, actually bothers me more when others of my own race use it.

[ms_will_b_happy]

Sorry for not being more specific with the sex club question and being to specific with the puke thing. I think the puke thing's nasty too but anyway...

What was the event you went to and why were you disgusted? And what's panssexual? The power exchange sounds interesting too. Why did you stop going to these events? And what was good and bad about each one? How did the events differ from each other? Like was it more fun at a house party? Did you always use protection and I forgot to ask this in my last questions, what do you think makes sex amazing with someone 'cos you said that you knew that girl was gonna be an amazing fuck but I think you've said before you've said you have a bit of a problem.

[evilgrins]

Was disgusted by the Exotic Erotic Fest, think it was the Hallowwen one, about 8 years back. Wasn't anything sexual I had a problem with so much as the venue was disgusting. There was garbage everywhere, the floor was an ocean of beer, booze, and whatever else (garbage) was down there, and the place reeked of body odor.

Pansexual refers to an event where all sexual orientations are allowed.

Only stopped going for wont of people to go with. Went to the pansex stuff with a particular lady love I'm no longer with and PE I usually brought a date but after I lost my car getting a date there and back was just too much effort.

Exotic Erotic is a sex event where going doesn't mean you get to participate but you get to observe...kinda like a concert or the circus. Power Exchange is an on premesis sex club where you can have sex in front of crowds and there's S&M & light bondage play as well. Pansex parties are pretty much all out fuckfests with snacks.

House party was more cozy but I've always found PE to be more fun.

I generally always use protection but I don't completely always. It's a trust thing. Women I've known a long time, or just fully trust, I'll go without the little raincoat after a medical test. Then there's cases of immediate trust, totally instinct, where I may not've from the very beginning; like
Raven.

I knew she'd be amazing from things we did while still at the fetish club. Way she moved, kissed, touched me; you can pick up a lot on how someone's sex skills are just from body language if you know what to look for.

My problem, or curse, is that I don't orgasm during sex. Means I can go for hours and hours tirelessly but odds on my ever having an orgasm are about nil.

[ms_will_b_happy]

Yeah that whole garbage thing is digusting.

So with PE and the house parties, you just go there with a partner and have sex? Do you have to have sex with other people there too?

What I really wanna know is, if when you say snacks at the pan parties you mean food, do you really eat it? 'Cos the first thing that came to mind was that Chris Rock joke about not eating at a strip club. I guess if you're eating off of someone that's different.

I knew what you're problem is but I didn't want to put it out there. But yeah, that's tough. Is there no way you can have an orgasm? If you've had orgasms, what needed to happen? Isn't it a psychological thing?

If I'm asking too many questions, let me know. Being nosy is my curse. Seriously :-D

[evilgrins]

Sometimes I'll have sex with others, usually we go in groups; kinda rare, but not unheard of, for me to hook up with someone outside of who I brought.

Cheese, crackers, and wine crew.

I can orgasm by myself but even that takes awhile. I have orgasmed with two other women; lady who liberated me from my virginity and another when I was 27 after about 9 hours of sex. It may be psychological, pretty sure i know what set it off if it is that...

there's no such a thing as too many questions for me

[ms_will_b_happy]

Is it dangerous for women to go to EP and pan parties?

Since you can and do orgasm, but you don't often with women, it does sound psychological. What do you think set it off?

[evilgrins]

It's PE and I suppose that depends on the woman. I'd say it's not an issue as they've got security and they really strive to make these places as safe as possible.

That and there's usually more women than men.

On numerous occasions, prior to my happy naked bouncy years, I heard women complain about men cumming too quickly or not lasting more than a minute or two. I suspect that's what got me set the way I am.

[ms_will_b_happy]

Cool. Do people ever get approached by at pe or pan parties to do movies?

That's actually quite a good explanation for it 'cos whenever we're trying to avoid something sometimes we become the complete opposite.

[evilgrins]

it's possible but I've never heard about it