Mar 21, 2003 01:20
Your Mood: You are probably feeling overwhelmed at the moment. It is as if you have too much on your plate and need time out. Perhaps you need a rest so that you can recharge your batteries; at the moment do not feel ready to take on more challenges. Focus and determined describes your present mood. You are out to achieve your goal and you concentrate on that. Unwavering you want to stick to the target of your ambitions, not completely to the exclusion of everything else, but almost!
Your Present Situation: You really need to take time out at the moment, your life is proving tiring and you seem to need to be on the lookout at all times. There is a real danger of wasting your energy, seek out someone who can help you to calm down and relax. You could do worse than take a romantic weekend break to help you revitalize yourself.You’re afraid…afraid to reveal yourself to others. This fear is resulting in others assuming you are aloof and withdrawn. But deep down you crave the comfort of close friends though you don’t seem to know how to overcome your obstacles. You are prepared to make changes but need the proper tools.
Your Sensual Self: To you, each man is an island. Disillusionment in a past partner has led you to believe that two people can ever really truly connect. Perhaps this same disappointment has given rise to your idealized view of love: conflict-free, peaceful and perfectly harmonious; you don’t enter a relationship just for the sexual excitement. This will be difficult to find, but your non-confrontational nature-you try hard to avoid jealous rages and dramatic breakups-means you won’t settle for anything less than a partnership built on mutual trust and love.
Sensitive and idealistic you yearn to reach a perfect state. You can be compassionate to others but often hard on yourself. You are blessed with a childish sense of curiosity, however you have a tendency to be naïve and unrealistic. You need to connect with others on a deep emotional level.
Peace, relaxation and escaping from the hustle and bustle of life is essential for your well being. You have a talent for understanding other people’s problems and they can find your company very reassuring and relaxing. You are longing for some love and affection at this time - not that you have been deprived of tender loving care - but there are times when everyone needs to try something new or to go 'somewhere' else to perhaps experience that little extra 'understanding'.
You can be very enthusiastic but generally try not to let your desires run out of control. You naturally balance your own needs with those of others, which makes you a loyal and reliable friend.
You cast a critical eye over others and form close relationships only when you are certain of those around you. When satisfied that others deserve respect you have no problem joining in and can make very useful contributions in group endeavors, whether at work or in the home. You are a true extrovert, frivolous and outgoing. You need to feel in control of any situation. If matters are not proceeding according to plan you tend to get extremely irritable and perhaps become difficult to live with.
You can be ambitious but often find it difficult to achieve all of your aims. Fundamentally you are not really ruthless enough to further your own goals at the expense of your colleagues and friends.
It is easy for you to go with the flow, especially with work colleagues. You like to get on with other people and generally are not comfortable judging them. Unscrupulous people can pull the wool over your eyes though. You lack confidence and that is a great pity because deep down you are indeed a warm caring person. This lack of confidence is making you wary of being drawn into any open discussion or conflict and so you feel as if you should let matters lie and leave well alone. But there may be a pleasant surprise in store for you. You are beginning to grow and very soon - sooner than you believed possible - this warm loving new you will be available for all to see and to appreciate.
When others try to control you and tell you what to do your response is to reject them and pull away. It is important for you to be able to make your own choices and you dislike being forced into anything. Others can see you as stubborn and self-willed.
You tend to have difficulty taking pleasure from the material world; some part of you is not comfortable with sensuality. You may over compensate but underneath you hold back and find it difficult to relax and really enjoy the moment. The need for admiration and to be regarded as 'someone special' is perhaps one of the foremost aims in your life at this time. You would like to perhaps do something outrageous or anything that will give you the chance to be recognized as someone special. This desire has now almost become an obsession and in your own way you are trying to fulfill this 'complex' by ensuring you are the center of attention, both at work or play, or in the home. Stop trying so hard and you will find that people will like you for who you are - not for who you are pretending to be.
Your cynicism is keeping you from getting close to others. You’re often dispassionate and close-minded, and since you expect little from others, you don’t even feel the loss of not having very many people you can turn to in times of need. Try to open up a little and enjoy the company of others, and realize that they can be of great help and comfort to your every-day life.
Whilst you are putting a great deal of energy into trying to improve on your weaknesses you need to realize the value of relaxing and enjoying life. It is all very well driving yourself hard, but you are human and need tenderness from others as well as from yourself.