the fuckery of my fandom.

[eunhaelover]

Wow, I left LJ for two days, and so much of fuckery is being done.

Look, I'm sick of coming to Livejournal to read about your fucking wars upon being a Haehyuk or Hyukhae fan. You guys are merely killing this fandom with your rotten attitude. What is so important about this that it requires for a war to start? Nobody is right or wrong. No one is at

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[eunhaelover]

ignore those idiots -_-
you don't pay attention to the rude ppl ^^
heheheheh no worries about the name calling.
it's just, it really hurts me when ppl talks about hyukjae like this. he's a man. he has dignity. He is someone that I fucking love and it pains me that due to certain people's sex dominance obsession, their choice of words to label him is just heartbreaking to me.

and thus the reason i kinda... stop reading violent or just really dirty and rude smuts :(

nah i still love you ♥

[marie_gable]

I think in simple terms people have to remember that this is fandom/fanfiction. It's not real. It doesn't make sense to get worked up over who tops or bottoms. People have a right to their opinion but it would have been sensible if they kept that to themselves instead of harassing each other. I do write smut but I try not to make it dirty but show the love of two characters. but I agree that Donghae and Hyukjae are regular people who deserve respect. In the real world im sure they dont want to be though of as sex addicted people.
Sorry, I feel like I just repeated what you already said but I saw the post.....and got worked up myself, keke.

[eunhaelover]

lol you are adorable ^^
nahh, i just don't understand or more precisely, I don't want to understand what those people are thinking. sick and tired of trying to voice out my opinion in a good way that people won't misunderstand what i'm trying to say.

but they are probably too absorbed to understand my opinions anyway. I respect their personal opinions, preferences, anything. But they are currently messing up my fandom and that's where i loose my cool.

i never intended to voice out my personal feelings about those fans. I know people dislike being judged, I tried not to judge them but they aren't giving me a solid reason to TRY STOPPING to judge them, you know what I'm trying to say?

Giving up on this fandom might just be my solution :3

[marie_gable]

Hey dear. Well I think that you shouldn't give up your fandom because of the actions of others. This is something you enjoy,right? I hope you cheer up bb because this seems to be really eating away at you...and it make me sad ㅠ.ㅠ hopefully these people will learn from their mistakes and grow to be better people than this.

[eunhaelover]

it USED to be something I enjoyed.
but these days, it's not even humane anymore.

(i'm only loving what the boys are showing me honestly)
the fans are just...sigh.
I am in no position to say anything.
I really hate judging because I've learned lessons from judging.
so for now, I've already voiced out what I wanted to say.
if people still don't understand then I can't help them~

no worries, i won't ENTIRELY give up this fandom~
only in reading wise bb ^^ will probably ditch lj :3

[leona_green]

Is the war that bad? O-o This is the 2nd or 3rd time reading things like this...but then again, I'm not friends with many author and such...I only use lj to post personal (and some fics) and to read fics x_x
Honestly, I don't understand the point of this pairing war...if you don't like it then don't read it.
I do agree with the name calling...I sometimes read something along the lines with that when they saw a non haehyuk / non hyukhae pic or fact :( My bias is hae and I don't like it when he got called bitch or something just because he's 'apparently' cheat on hyukjae...that's just silly :(
Shipping otp shouldn't go that far and people need to draw the line between reality and fanservice >_

[eunhaelover]

oh the war keeps coming that I don't even want to come to lj anymore :( it is that bad.

i don't know what more i can say for this matter.
it's not like they will ever understand.
majority of those that is creating this mess happens to be either YOUNGER than me or worse, ELDER than me to the point that their mind is consumed with only sex dominance in their fandom.

since when did kpop turned into a smut and explicit fandom? as far as kpop is defined in my vocabulary, KPOP is Korean Pop, where we enjoy beautiful korean music and appreciate what the korean idols are doing for us fans.

But now, THOSE otp shippers are making it seem like, only their OTP matters in their kpop vocab and not even the band or their songs anymore. I really don't know what to say anymore :/

very very tired of seeing my fandom turning into some crazy war zone :( and to think i resolve to my fandom to release stress lol now it's adding stress~

[meolchiloveshae]

I HATE WHEN FANS TROLL ON WIKI PAGE. PEOPLE WHO DONT KNW THEM GOOGLED THEM LAST WEEK AND LAUGHED, MOCKING THEM FOR BEING GAY. WELL DONE TO THOSE WHO DID IT. YOU RUINED THE BOYS' IMAGES ALREADY..

suju is gay only in our fandom because we love them together and they look cute together..but when those who messed up with the wiki page changed so many facts about them, it has gotten out of control!

AND YOU CALL YOURSELF A FAN? FU.

*hug* ignore them..i had enough with this drama. sometimes, i just wanna cut myself frm twitter. so annoying.

[eunhaelover]

quiting lj very soon if this continues on. that's all i'm going to say. I might eventually even mock this fandom if people continue acting like a brat.

I really don't want to loose interest in this particular OTP fandom but sadly, fucked up fans are just fucked up and I DESPISE FUCKED UP FANS.

don't go overboard as a fan. there's a limit in everything.
and it's always the stupidity of the stans that gets on my nerve and THIS particular stans....are getting on my last nerves.

[eunhaesherry]

Omgggggggg!!! bb!
savior

u know what!!

I USED TO LOVE EUNHAE AS IN EUNHYUK(BIAS) AND HAE AS LOVER...
I LOVE HYUKHAE BUT I READ AND SOMETMES WRITE HAEHYUK TOO..

AS MUCH AS I SHIPS HYUKHAE I NEVER EVER FORCE OR BASH PEOPLE THAT LOVE HAEHYUK...

this fandorm world should be about fans that have one in common, loving eunhyuk and hae as couple turns into a battlefield..

yeah! i agree..i hate when hyuk(bias) is labelled as slut or whore in the fics that now i always make hae the one like that too turn the table round..but again, it is fic,,so not the real them..its ok..now, cause i always see hyuk being degraded, i make hae too..rofl..

yeah! i PREFER ROMANCE WAY much than smut though i find myself writing smut much nowdays since people ask for them all the time..:P

yeah! i hate this kind of fuss,,we are ALL FAMILY HERE..is that hard too ask for..we shud be all together spazzing about eunhae not battling over who tops..or other pairing..if so, just listen dont bash! respect...easy

so i agree with you all thewayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!

[eunhaelover]

but that is not what they are doing at all.
i'm done with this fandom. i'm going to quit LJ soon, I guess. there is not use coming here anymore unless it's for good fics (but there aren't many nowadays as authors' hardwork are being plagiarized and shits).

I can never understand a person's mentality to steal people's work, claiming it as theirs and then trash on my fandom. I don't.

even spazzing becomes so hard these days if it's not the way ppl want it to be. this fandom is getting harder and it's suffocating me.

I don't enjoy seeing us bonding as a family anymore.
not when there are people labeling each other with bad names just because of their crossed opinions.

idk what to do anymore ;(