hopeless

Jun 28, 2005 19:25

i think i may only write in this thing when i'm having boy trouble. okay, well, not really trouble with a capital T or anything, but when i think i'm needing one more consistently in my life. or, well, any in my life at all, even if not consistent. anyway, i've tried the online dating thing and have not been so pleased...it's okay but kinda ( Read more... )

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yourprincesslea June 28 2005, 21:54:58 UTC
1. you said predator. that makes you sound like a dinosaur, or a tiger or something. i would have said 'initiator' or something.
2. he's MORE extroverted than you? how is that possible, you are pretty damn outgoing.
3. getting involved with a co worker is sometimes a bad idea, but not always. so life in residency really IS like greys anatomy. har har.
4. do NOT ask him out. do not leave hints about him asking you out. if he doesnt ask, he's not that interested. PERIOD. go about your business, and just continue to be friends with him. that seems to work in your favor, usually, as opposed to the creepy internet guys. i know you dont like to play games but the truth is that guys do not like it when girls go after them, they just dont. they say they do, but in reality they dont. its just like when they say they hate it when girls wear makeup, but when you're not wearing any they tell you you look sick or tired.
i think the bottom line with guys is that we as girls analyze too much, if he isnt asking you out, or doesnt after a reasonable amount of time he probably doesnt want to date you. but, if you feel like he does, and is just shy, if he likes you enough, eventually he will ask you out or bring it up. even if it takes a couple years. that has been my experience anyway.

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