Maybe I overreacted?
Sooo....I went out last night with some of my friends for a night of dancing and drinks. Was a fun night..36oz margaritas rock..and you can't beat watermelon jello shots. Though I'm a slow starter and started my evening off with a white russian...I love those things. Tastes like vodka and chocolate milk to me.(Of course I'm a sucker for anything that tastes like chocolate. I'm such a choco-holic)
Anyhow, so I got home tonight kinda late into the evening. Spent the day with my friend Rebecca just chilling out on her mama's front porch with coffee and a cigarette. Bit of a sunburn but that's beside the point. So, I'm talking to my husband and I start telling him about my night. He sounds completely disinterested, so I ask if he wasn't interested in hearing about my night. I figured hell he's my husband maybe he'd like to know what we did last night since he's in TN and I'm in LA.
He's all like if I want to tell then tell. So I said that's okay I won't since you don't seem interested and change the subject. He goes all 'Well I assume you had fun and didn't cheat on me.' or some shit like that.So I'm sitting here thinking WTF. Really? Did you SERIOUSLY just say that to me. Okay admittedly..it was text over the computer but it just came out like he thought I was gonna cheat on him or some shit cause I went out drinking. Yanno we lived apart for like 3 years and he never said shit like that to me when I went drinking. or even when I was here visiting without him and went drinking with my friends. So, I'm all like 'What would make you say something like that." and his response was something like 'Well, with the drinking you might have forgot or something that you're married."
Again I'm sitting here going WTF are you on while reading this. Yeah, I got hit on once. No, I did not cheat on him. I told the dude I wasn't interested and I'm married then walked away and rejoined my friends after getting my drink. But seriously..what the fuck kind of thing is that to say? Yeah I had a few drinks, but I stopped drinking around midnight so one of us was sober enough to drive home and we didn't leave until like 4am in the first place then got food so that helped metabolize more of the alcohol that might have been left in my system at that time. But come on...even joking as he claimed he was, who the fuck asks that when I've never shown any signs of even remotely being interested in another guy?
My sister says I didn't overreact...and that I told too many details to him. I'm not even going to bother saying anything next time. But I was all like trusting much, huh?Only talked to my sister for like a minute cause she was at work...but it was too late in the evening to call who I really wanted to vent to or discuss it with. Way to end what had been a really nice day.
Anyhow, so I got home tonight kinda late into the evening. Spent the day with my friend Rebecca just chilling out on her mama's front porch with coffee and a cigarette. Bit of a sunburn but that's beside the point. So, I'm talking to my husband and I start telling him about my night. He sounds completely disinterested, so I ask if he wasn't interested in hearing about my night. I figured hell he's my husband maybe he'd like to know what we did last night since he's in TN and I'm in LA.
He's all like if I want to tell then tell. So I said that's okay I won't since you don't seem interested and change the subject. He goes all 'Well I assume you had fun and didn't cheat on me.' or some shit like that.So I'm sitting here thinking WTF. Really? Did you SERIOUSLY just say that to me. Okay admittedly..it was text over the computer but it just came out like he thought I was gonna cheat on him or some shit cause I went out drinking. Yanno we lived apart for like 3 years and he never said shit like that to me when I went drinking. or even when I was here visiting without him and went drinking with my friends. So, I'm all like 'What would make you say something like that." and his response was something like 'Well, with the drinking you might have forgot or something that you're married."
Again I'm sitting here going WTF are you on while reading this. Yeah, I got hit on once. No, I did not cheat on him. I told the dude I wasn't interested and I'm married then walked away and rejoined my friends after getting my drink. But seriously..what the fuck kind of thing is that to say? Yeah I had a few drinks, but I stopped drinking around midnight so one of us was sober enough to drive home and we didn't leave until like 4am in the first place then got food so that helped metabolize more of the alcohol that might have been left in my system at that time. But come on...even joking as he claimed he was, who the fuck asks that when I've never shown any signs of even remotely being interested in another guy?
My sister says I didn't overreact...and that I told too many details to him. I'm not even going to bother saying anything next time. But I was all like trusting much, huh?Only talked to my sister for like a minute cause she was at work...but it was too late in the evening to call who I really wanted to vent to or discuss it with. Way to end what had been a really nice day.