Is there such thing as a good guy?
Is there really such thing as a "good guy"? Men in their 20's seem to only want 2 things: sex and alcohol.
They prove time and time again that you just can't trust them. For instance: I was dating a guy named Steve. He seemed to have everything all together, he seemed to be a good decent guy. He had his flaws and I wasn't blind to them but his humor, honesty and caring demeanor out weighed them. We had just gone on a double date with his best friend and his girlfriend to the Big E fair. On the way back to my place he happily showed me with a big smile his best friends text saying "Man I like her!" I was in! Then out of the blue I get this IM, "Im sorry its over". He said I wasn't his type. What the hell does that mean? We had been talking since May, he asked me out after months of getting to know each other. You would think that he would have realized between May and September that I wasn't his type. The only reasoning I can think of is that I didnt want to have sex with him until we were official. I didn't want to get into anything that serious so fast. I way played.
Im dreading monday when he comes to get his stuff back.
a second case: My best friend Kaitlyn has been with her boyfriend Dave for over 3 years. They were engaged, he was telling her about buying her flowers for the next time he comes up earlier today. Their lives revolved around each other entirely. Today, just 5 hours ago he told her that he's cheated on her for the 3rd time. He says that he loves her but that hes only been with her, no one else, he wants to know what other women are like first. I say it sounds like bull and shes better off without the sleaze ball, she says that he is a guy and when a guy is that far away from his girl friend for so long, temptation is difficult to push away. She says that if he comes back, she would take him back. They are each others soul mates. She's been crying the last 5 hours non stop and probably still is.
Why do men our age play so many head games?
I just wish that I could find 1 good guy who is honest, intelligent, takes care of himself, a guy who is different from all the rest. a guy who does what he says he will.