Jun 03, 2006 13:24
I spent some time earlier thinking about friendship and the relationships I have with people. I've known for a long time that I flip-flop and go through phases with friends. I get really close to people and then I get sick of them and drop them basically. But I never sever the ties so severely that we can't still be kool. I just change friends like the seasons change. Quarterly or somethin like that. But not that regularly. But like the seasons, though I may switch up and not talk to people for extended periods, I always come back around and start the friendship up again. Let's just say that I have a few friends that are rounding out their season with several losses and are about to be in the off-season. Just tired of them and they unknowingly keep doing things and showing parts of their character that I cannot stand. And I have other friends that I could be and need to be spending time with. And I certainly plan on it. Life is too short to surround yourself with people that work your nerves. I don't want to be in the company of people that I am not enjoying. I'd rather have no friends and just be lonely and bored all the time than keep the company of people that annoy me and don't bring me any additional happiness.