Firstly, if you have any prayers or good thoughts to spare, you moght want to send some
haikujaguar's way, she's been having a rough time of it.
Secondly... if I sometimes seem oddly shy of chat and refuse to speak, there are several reasons, but the main one is often that my sister is up and about and I don't want her nosing around trying to find out what I'm saying to my friends. *mad*