The fact of the matter is: The ball's in my court

[equinenut86]

Why is it that in life, the ultimate choice is left up to you? It is interesting to point out that while others might believe that ultimate choices happen every day, this is actually untrue. The fact of the matter is that ultimate choices come around after the choices of others and the choices you've made come to a head and a person is left

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[bluemoon42]

Well, everyone has their problems that they are given in life. To one person they're the world, to others, those wouldn't be considered problems. So never worry about your problems sounding too small for others, we may not see them as problems in relation to ourselves, but we all realize that for you, that's your burden that you're facing right now. (I think I butchered the english language in that sentence but I'm going forward for now.)

God gives everyone a different set of problems for them to face. The reason he gives everyone a different set is because we're all made so different and unique from each other that only we could ever conquer those problems. But what God also does is he doesn't let us know that we have that power sometimes. Why? Is it some cruel test? No. It's to help us discover who we are, who others are, what the world is for, and how are we in our relationship to God. In the end the only thing that matters is how far did you go to get close to your Creator? Did you stop halfway cause you thought it was too hard? No choice is ever easy that becomes a life changing choice.

Life can never be simple. Because then we would never be given the opportunity to show who we truly are and who's image we have been created with. Nothing can ever be set and left alone. Then we run the risk of getting lazy in our faith, in our relationships, whatever. Life must always be hectic in order that we may be the better for it.

I hope this helps, insufficient though I know it may be.

Love.