Welcome to my journal, which is friends-only to minimize drama, dullards, and dysfunctionality. If you're a reasonably decent sort of person and you're interested in reading, go ahead and friend me. I'll most likely add you back.
However, I don't friend everyone. I am highly unlikely to add you back if you have no user profile, have never actually posted to your own LJ, have only corsetry and fetish-related user interests listed, or otherwise make it plain that your journal is exclusively used for acts of creepy peeping tom-ism. Because you know, that's just plain icky, don't you think?