I talk alot on here, and do the quizzes and things, but I don't know how often I really open up and share what's really on my mind, so here goes
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Everyone's problems seem crap compared to someone else's. Not that that helps as such, but it's worth noting just so you can sort of keep yourself reminded of it. It's one of the things I worry about a lot; "Why am I so crap/ have all these mental issues etc? I've had it easy compared to lots of people."
Don't be ashamed of it, consider it as opposed to going to a club and trying to pull (saveson bills for the new clothes etc too:>)... Internet dating at least gives you some actual insight into the person and seems to be pretty successful at finding people relationships.
Wow, I thought it was only blokes got the "most of my friends are .... But that's all they want from me - friendship." thing. It seems to be quite common. I've always assumed that women didn't have that sort of issue, at least as far as sex is concerned(which might not be the main priority, but sometimes...). I know that of the women I've been friends with there have been very few, if any, that I haven't found at least somewhat attractive too (often not until we became friends mind, and some more than others). Sarah and I started out as friends and she was totally not interested in anything else for quite a few years, then suddenly...POW!:> I'm still not really sure what happened and it was either 9 or 10 years ago today.
Same as ever, nothing much happens around here. Thanks; she forgot this morning...I thought that was my job as the man:> although neither of us are sure of the year either.
For some reason I couldn't reply to your last email-the dog-food diet one. This is the reply I was trying to send:
"That reminds me of something my Gran actually did: We've got two cats and Gran likes to buy them treats occasionally. She was in her local C0-OP and saw that they had an offer on posh cat-food (the little foil things I think it was), so she picked up a pack.
At the counter the assistant was chatting away and, when they reached these, said "ooh what sort of cat have you got?" Gran replied "oh I've not got a cat, these are for my grandchildren." The look on the assistants face was apparently a real picture, and it took Gran a while to realise why."
Don't be ashamed of it, consider it as opposed to going to a club and trying to pull (saveson bills for the new clothes etc too:>)... Internet dating at least gives you some actual insight into the person and seems to be pretty successful at finding people relationships.
Wow, I thought it was only blokes got the "most of my friends are .... But that's all they want from me - friendship." thing. It seems to be quite common. I've always assumed that women didn't have that sort of issue, at least as far as sex is concerned(which might not be the main priority, but sometimes...).
I know that of the women I've been friends with there have been very few, if any, that I haven't found at least somewhat attractive too (often not until we became friends mind, and some more than others). Sarah and I started out as friends and she was totally not interested in anything else for quite a few years, then suddenly...POW!:> I'm still not really sure what happened and it was either 9 or 10 years ago today.
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We haven't spoken in a while. How are you? And I'd like to congratulate both Sarah and yourself - you said it was like 9 or 10 years to the day?
Well done. Both of you!!
Kath x x
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Thanks; she forgot this morning...I thought that was my job as the man:> although neither of us are sure of the year either.
For some reason I couldn't reply to your last email-the dog-food diet one.
This is the reply I was trying to send:
"That reminds me of something my Gran actually did:
We've got two cats and Gran likes to buy them treats occasionally.
She was in her local C0-OP and saw that they had an offer on posh cat-food (the little foil things I think it was), so she picked up a pack.
At the counter the assistant was chatting away and, when they reached these, said "ooh what sort of cat have you got?"
Gran replied "oh I've not got a cat, these are for my grandchildren."
The look on the assistants face was apparently a real picture, and it took Gran a while to realise why."
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Enjoy your anniversary!!
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