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People are funny man.
I'm convinced everyone's in this "I might have a good time if I did, but I don't want to make it obvious" phase. And it grows more aloof as the years tack on. Listen, if you want to hang out with somebody, you'll MAKE IT HAPPEN. That's the golden rule. Nobody.........I repeat NOBODY makes it difficult or complicated to hang out if they truly WANT to hang out with you. It's as simple as that. Sure someone might have some things to take care of or a hectic schedule, but those who WANT to hang out will actually find a day, a time, a moment, and they'll let you know when exactly that is instead of procrastinating or not giving you direct answers. Here let me break it down to you in simple equation form........
You like = hang out
You don't like = you don't hang out
Are you still confused? Do you still not get it? If they want to hang out, but certain times won't work, they'll give you the times that do. If they want to hang out, but Saturday's not a good day, they'll let you know which day is. God, don't be stupid. That's the one thing I'm proud about myself. I used to slave over that shit. Now, when someone doesn't give me a direct answer, I split. Why twiddle my thumbs and wait around like a complete idiot? There's millions of other people out there and chances are ONE of them will be adult enough and straight forward enough to say "Hey, this is the time that's good for me."
LOL.......You'd have to be a complete tool not to see that if someone doesn't give you a direct answer, they're not really wanting to hang out. I'm not down with convincing someone I'm worthy of your time. If you cannot see that, you're possibly the dumbest fucker on this planet. If you cannot see that, you have possibly the worst people skills or character analysis ever to grace this earth. I am not here to convince you, hear that? Just like you're not hear to convince me!!!!!
This is beyond frustrating these days. This shit was supposed to end once I got out of college and it has obviously been perpetuated for at least 5 more years MINIMUM. It's really sad. I remember when I was in Seattle for my last restaurant opening and I was listening to the radio. The DJ was commenting on how 57% of men in the Seattle over the age of 30 have NEVER been married. That's disgusting. 57% people! That's majority. If you cannot see how wrong that is then you fail to see the steaming pile of crapinski the dating world is progressing towards.
EDIT: I think this entry was a bit harsh. I think I'll go to bed now. lol
I'm convinced everyone's in this "I might have a good time if I did, but I don't want to make it obvious" phase. And it grows more aloof as the years tack on. Listen, if you want to hang out with somebody, you'll MAKE IT HAPPEN. That's the golden rule. Nobody.........I repeat NOBODY makes it difficult or complicated to hang out if they truly WANT to hang out with you. It's as simple as that. Sure someone might have some things to take care of or a hectic schedule, but those who WANT to hang out will actually find a day, a time, a moment, and they'll let you know when exactly that is instead of procrastinating or not giving you direct answers. Here let me break it down to you in simple equation form........
You like = hang out
You don't like = you don't hang out
Are you still confused? Do you still not get it? If they want to hang out, but certain times won't work, they'll give you the times that do. If they want to hang out, but Saturday's not a good day, they'll let you know which day is. God, don't be stupid. That's the one thing I'm proud about myself. I used to slave over that shit. Now, when someone doesn't give me a direct answer, I split. Why twiddle my thumbs and wait around like a complete idiot? There's millions of other people out there and chances are ONE of them will be adult enough and straight forward enough to say "Hey, this is the time that's good for me."
LOL.......You'd have to be a complete tool not to see that if someone doesn't give you a direct answer, they're not really wanting to hang out. I'm not down with convincing someone I'm worthy of your time. If you cannot see that, you're possibly the dumbest fucker on this planet. If you cannot see that, you have possibly the worst people skills or character analysis ever to grace this earth. I am not here to convince you, hear that? Just like you're not hear to convince me!!!!!
This is beyond frustrating these days. This shit was supposed to end once I got out of college and it has obviously been perpetuated for at least 5 more years MINIMUM. It's really sad. I remember when I was in Seattle for my last restaurant opening and I was listening to the radio. The DJ was commenting on how 57% of men in the Seattle over the age of 30 have NEVER been married. That's disgusting. 57% people! That's majority. If you cannot see how wrong that is then you fail to see the steaming pile of crapinski the dating world is progressing towards.
EDIT: I think this entry was a bit harsh. I think I'll go to bed now. lol