roomie
The roommate situation seems to be resolved. She's just super petty. It turns out that there were several little things that I had done that got under her skin. By her not telling me about it, I continued to do it and it continued to annoy her. So, I guess it all built up and she couldn't handle it anymore and decided she'd just make me move. Things like, hanging a clock up in the living room over peeling paint, putting a can on the counter, my foot touched her pillow on her couch. Whatever. So, I told her that those things were easily fixed and I could stop doing whatever it is that is annoying her and we're okay now. I'm still going to pay off all of my bills as soon as possible, save money and get the heck out. I want my own place.
I'm still single as a pringle. Jimmie is a dork. After 7 months, he decided that he didn't want to be in a long term relationship. He wasn't ready to be serious. He thought I wanted the relationship to be more serious than it was and that if we stayed together we'd be headed towards marriage. Of course, he was the one that made the relationship as serious as it was by bringing up all the if we were married scenarios, talking to me everyday, making dates every weekend, and doing nice things for me all the time. So, whatever. He still contacts me everyday. We went to the movies last night, we exchanged Christmas gifts. He paid for the movie and bought me coffee afterward. We sat next to each other in the theater..there was a group of us..the other 2 sat behind us. It felt like a double date. It was strange. Kind of like nothing changed but it has. He still tries to be all flirty with me. I told him that he has a choice: we can be friends, or we can date and flirt. He can't have both because flirting implies attraction and desire to be closer. I told him that he can feel those things but he can't express them until he's ready to act on them. It's confusing to me and wrong. He has that "lets be friends and lets be more but don't make me feel like I have to marry you someday because I'm not ready for that but don't leave me out of your future either because I might change my mind tomorrow" game going. I hate it. Stupid boys. I'm not dating again until God gives me the okay.
So, I'm looking forward to coming to Indiana and getting a break from the craziness here.
Work is going okay. Nothing really exciting to report there, of course the constant changes but that's not new. It's hard to know your job when the rules changes everyday. It's kind of frustrating. Oh well. I love life. :-D
Health news: I have cysts on my ovaries..it hurts, nothing you can do about it. GREAT!! WOO HOO!! Let's have a party! I love my body!! LOL :-D
I'm still single as a pringle. Jimmie is a dork. After 7 months, he decided that he didn't want to be in a long term relationship. He wasn't ready to be serious. He thought I wanted the relationship to be more serious than it was and that if we stayed together we'd be headed towards marriage. Of course, he was the one that made the relationship as serious as it was by bringing up all the if we were married scenarios, talking to me everyday, making dates every weekend, and doing nice things for me all the time. So, whatever. He still contacts me everyday. We went to the movies last night, we exchanged Christmas gifts. He paid for the movie and bought me coffee afterward. We sat next to each other in the theater..there was a group of us..the other 2 sat behind us. It felt like a double date. It was strange. Kind of like nothing changed but it has. He still tries to be all flirty with me. I told him that he has a choice: we can be friends, or we can date and flirt. He can't have both because flirting implies attraction and desire to be closer. I told him that he can feel those things but he can't express them until he's ready to act on them. It's confusing to me and wrong. He has that "lets be friends and lets be more but don't make me feel like I have to marry you someday because I'm not ready for that but don't leave me out of your future either because I might change my mind tomorrow" game going. I hate it. Stupid boys. I'm not dating again until God gives me the okay.
So, I'm looking forward to coming to Indiana and getting a break from the craziness here.
Work is going okay. Nothing really exciting to report there, of course the constant changes but that's not new. It's hard to know your job when the rules changes everyday. It's kind of frustrating. Oh well. I love life. :-D
Health news: I have cysts on my ovaries..it hurts, nothing you can do about it. GREAT!! WOO HOO!! Let's have a party! I love my body!! LOL :-D