Feb 06, 2008 19:37
First I am going to comment on married life
HELL YEAH! BEING MARRIED IS FREAKING AWESOME AND I LOVE MY AMAZING HUSBAND!
Everyone keeps asking so I thought I would just say it once and for all. Of course Tim and I did nothing the traditional way. We didn't kiss until our wedding day and I would like to take a few lines to comment on our courtship. We courted which means we dated with the full intention of getting married. Basically our time of dating was purposeful in which we talked alot about what we belived, our goals, what we wanted out of life, and things of that nature and finding ourselves compatable, we got married. But thoughout it all we never kissed. At first when we went on our first date and Tim asked that we not kiss until our wedding day, I was a little unsure. But in reality it is the best thing that we ever could have done. It helped us to focus on getting to know each other. It also provided constant bounderies and expectations of what our time together would be like (no wondering). Alot of people asked me how would I know if he was the one if we never kissed. Well, our relationship wasn't based on anything physical and we knew that we got along as friends and boyfriend and girlfriend. I knew that all the physical stuff would come naturally and it did :).
Our honeymoon in San Antonio was awesome.
Today, I am feeling stressed. Life just piles on sometimes and well this week it has more then piled on and is stressful and frustrating. But I am pushing forward though it all and looking to fun stuff in the future.