wow sarah, i'm really sorry you feel that way. and you're not too bad at angsting, because i felt really depressed after i read this entry. yes, i agree with jemma, you are insanely talented and smart, and you are funny, (you made me laugh a lot at red lobster and at your house that one night) and from what i've heard from jemma and kristen, you are a wonderful friend, and people DO want to hang out with you... *hug* cheer up dear ^^ if it helps, i get that feeling a lot too, but friends make it all better.
Wow, Sofie, thanks. This really means a lot to me. And I do feel a little bit better now. It's just a hard thing to accept that your friends change too and that sometimes, you can't remain friends. I just wish this didn't have to happen to me so often. And I really should be mature enough to handle these things and move on, but I always let myself take it personally. ~_~
glad that you're feeling a bit better ^^ yeah, i know what you mean about friends changing... this might seem like a stupid example, but here it is:
you probably know that i've moved around a lot in my life... all over europe and stuff. well, naturally, i try to keep in touch with my friends that i've left. and as time goes on, people you thought were close to you start to drift away. they dont answer your emails and dont chat with you anymore. i've had many sob sessions trying to figure out why they won't talk to me anymore. and soon there are only a handful of people who still keep in touch with you, and laugh with you and are interested in your life. those people, are the friends you keep... they're the ones that despite changes and distance, still keep close to you. anyways, my point is, don't blame yourself for when it seems like people drift away... it just happens sometimes, and we all have to move on ^^ hope it made a bit of sense ^__^
You're very very right. I just have this idealistic and somewhat childish notion that everyone who was once my friend could stay that way. And then I find myself trying very hard to please them and make them continue to like me. It's a bad habit that I really should start breaking. And you're also right that it definitely tells me who my true friends are, and for that I'm thankful.
So you made a lot of sense, and thanks for sharing with me - it helps to know other people feel this way too. ^_^
*hug* cheer up dear ^^ if it helps, i get that feeling a lot too, but friends make it all better.
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yeah, i know what you mean about friends changing... this might seem like a stupid example, but here it is:
you probably know that i've moved around a lot in my life... all over europe and stuff. well, naturally, i try to keep in touch with my friends that i've left. and as time goes on, people you thought were close to you start to drift away. they dont answer your emails and dont chat with you anymore. i've had many sob sessions trying to figure out why they won't talk to me anymore. and soon there are only a handful of people who still keep in touch with you, and laugh with you and are interested in your life. those people, are the friends you keep... they're the ones that despite changes and distance, still keep close to you. anyways, my point is, don't blame yourself for when it seems like people drift away... it just happens sometimes, and we all have to move on ^^
hope it made a bit of sense ^__^
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So you made a lot of sense, and thanks for sharing with me - it helps to know other people feel this way too. ^_^
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