Re: thank you for really ever attempting to be a friendemollicaAugust 28 2005, 22:49:24 UTC
First of all,
When Jenna cheated on you, I assume being the ex-girlfriend you speak of, the only thing that comes to mind is Kim, and I do believe, no, I know for a fact that I did console you in all of that, and agreed with what you were saying. I went back that night, with Mike, and picked you up, because you were completely intoxicated.
Secondly, When Bill called Erika, my intention and I am sure his as well was to see how she was, and to let her know that she has always been nice to us and was more than welcome to call us. We also called her on the basis thinking she knew everything that was occurring, we were just as confused and shocked as her when she did not, and I am positive none of what was said were rumors.
Third, I enjoy Fall Out Boy, and not only them, but Atreyu is one of the other main bands I was bent on seeing at Warped Tour. If anyone is inconsiderate in this matter for leaving Warped Tour early, it is you for complaining. It was unfair, and unjust to allow my father to sit in the car for four hours, let alone the additional four you would have waited to see Fall out Boy play and finish.
Finally, Anthony, I WAS informed that someone, not pointing who, was considered a "way better friend" than Stephen. Also told that you were not very happy with me.
And Anthony, let us think... I understand that I should call people, but you went from a pattern of calling me on a regular basis, to calling me only when you knew Jenna was with me. And this calls were placed so conviently in this favor, considering the fact I do not hang out with Jenna everyday.
Also, the me not answering my phone for you, but for Lauren, Mistie, and Chelsea, is completely ridiculous. You would call me during my work day, and the minute I got my cell phone at the end of the day, going down my missed calls list, Erika's cell phone or your house phone would be the first number I called back. There was not one day you called, that I did not return the call the minute or so I got off of work.
Anthony, my feelings towards you also tie in to the fact that.... I never expected you to do what you have done in the past month....
I know it should not be my buisness.... but you especially, you and I have had those conversations about how relationships should be... you and I have spoken so much about that, and when all this happened.... I was completely forced back... I was probably just as devastated as Erika.
Considering I promised her nothing would ever happen between you or Jenna...
but, Anthony, you are never wrong.... so all these points I have made are simply pointless... I am sure you will conjure up something to defeat these arguements.... but this is exact respone I have to each of your arguements, and I do not speak lies through any of them....
Anthony, you were wrong for what you did... you know that, and now I am to blame.....
Re: thank you for really ever attempting to be a friendemollicaAugust 29 2005, 19:41:46 UTC
So, it is childishness to defend myself against these unruly accusations?
1.) When I said that about Lauren, I am 100% positive it was said before I even knew Kim kissed Jenna. How I know? Is because Mike walked to my car, I was sitting in there sulking, yes, but anyways, Jenna was singing Dashboard with you. I was completely unaware of what had gone down, and was informed later through a cell phone when you called.
2.) Anthony, I have always been there for you. Up to the whole Lauren, Jenna, Anthony "scandal", which obviously upset me, and stopped our friendship the first time, I was there. Anytime either of us were upset about something we always consoled one another. Though my consoling was a little more harsh considering I needed it to be pushed away from Lauren.
And as for Erika being a friend, I always considered her a good friend, and most definately enjoyed hanging out with her when we did. If you do not remember me asking why Erika couldn't hang out with us on Wed. and Thurs. even after she got off of work.
3.) You guareenteed my father a ticket for Warped Tour, and you said it with such confidence that I quote from you, "I will give your dad my ticket if the show is sold out." So, when we arrived, it was sold out, so you were wrong. So, we had to compromise for it. My father was well-aware of what Anthony? I do not think he even had a clue he would have to wait in the car for us to finish.
Anyways, I am done with this arguement. Call me if you call me. I will allow you to retort, and I will read, but I am not going to carry on with this any further.
Re: thank you for really ever attempting to be a friendemollicaAugust 29 2005, 22:14:18 UTC
You know what, fine you win. You are right. I conceid. This post has been soiled with this arguement.
Take the win Anthony. My original intention for my reply was to try and make things better, but it only pulled it down further into the dark.
I am not going to say anything more, anything more to continue this, because this is making us both look bad. Whether or not who is right, whoever reads this is going to see us both argueing back and forth.
When Jenna cheated on you, I assume being the ex-girlfriend you speak of, the only thing that comes to mind is Kim, and I do believe, no, I know for a fact that I did console you in all of that, and agreed with what you were saying. I went back that night, with Mike, and picked you up, because you were completely intoxicated.
Secondly, When Bill called Erika, my intention and I am sure his as well was to see how she was, and to let her know that she has always been nice to us and was more than welcome to call us. We also called her on the basis thinking she knew everything that was occurring, we were just as confused and shocked as her when she did not, and I am positive none of what was said were rumors.
Third, I enjoy Fall Out Boy, and not only them, but Atreyu is one of the other main bands I was bent on seeing at Warped Tour. If anyone is inconsiderate in this matter for leaving Warped Tour early, it is you for complaining. It was unfair, and unjust to allow my father to sit in the car for four hours, let alone the additional four you would have waited to see Fall out Boy play and finish.
Finally, Anthony, I WAS informed that someone, not pointing who, was considered a "way better friend" than Stephen. Also told that you were not very happy with me.
And Anthony, let us think... I understand that I should call people, but you went from a pattern of calling me on a regular basis, to calling me only when you knew Jenna was with me. And this calls were placed so conviently in this favor, considering the fact I do not hang out with Jenna everyday.
Also, the me not answering my phone for you, but for Lauren, Mistie, and Chelsea, is completely ridiculous. You would call me during my work day, and the minute I got my cell phone at the end of the day, going down my missed calls list, Erika's cell phone or your house phone would be the first number I called back. There was not one day you called, that I did not return the call the minute or so I got off of work.
Anthony, my feelings towards you also tie in to the fact that.... I never expected you to do what you have done in the past month....
I know it should not be my buisness.... but you especially, you and I have had those conversations about how relationships should be... you and I have spoken so much about that, and when all this happened.... I was completely forced back... I was probably just as devastated as Erika.
Considering I promised her nothing would ever happen between you or Jenna...
but, Anthony, you are never wrong.... so all these points I have made are simply pointless... I am sure you will conjure up something to defeat these arguements.... but this is exact respone I have to each of your arguements, and I do not speak lies through any of them....
Anthony, you were wrong for what you did... you know that, and now I am to blame.....
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1.) When I said that about Lauren, I am 100% positive it was said before I even knew Kim kissed Jenna. How I know? Is because Mike walked to my car, I was sitting in there sulking, yes, but anyways, Jenna was singing Dashboard with you. I was completely unaware of what had gone down, and was informed later through a cell phone when you called.
2.) Anthony, I have always been there for you. Up to the whole Lauren, Jenna, Anthony "scandal", which obviously upset me, and stopped our friendship the first time, I was there. Anytime either of us were upset about something we always consoled one another. Though my consoling was a little more harsh considering I needed it to be pushed away from Lauren.
And as for Erika being a friend, I always considered her a good friend, and most definately enjoyed hanging out with her when we did. If you do not remember me asking why Erika couldn't hang out with us on Wed. and Thurs. even after she got off of work.
3.) You guareenteed my father a ticket for Warped Tour, and you said it with such confidence that I quote from you, "I will give your dad my ticket if the show is sold out." So, when we arrived, it was sold out, so you were wrong. So, we had to compromise for it. My father was well-aware of what Anthony? I do not think he even had a clue he would have to wait in the car for us to finish.
Anyways, I am done with this arguement. Call me if you call me. I will allow you to retort, and I will read, but I am not going to carry on with this any further.
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Take the win Anthony. My original intention for my reply was to try and make things better, but it only pulled it down further into the dark.
I am not going to say anything more, anything more to continue this, because this is making us both look bad. Whether or not who is right, whoever reads this is going to see us both argueing back and forth.
there is no arguement, and run I shall.
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