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So, I wasn't initially going to make a post about this,
as I'm not too huge into the whole livejournal drama thing.
But since generally I am a quiet person, I think I'll go ahead and speak my mind.
From an unbiased-not-anyone's-best-friend point of view.
Plus I'd like to clear up a few things that some simple minded people seem to be confused about.
A. Jekka did not scheme and plan to make a community to destroy The Real Bitches. If anyone is to be at fault for the community it should actually be me. I was the one who came up with the name. I was the one who got the layout for our community. I helped Jekka pick how the cards should look. I made the application. I made the activities. I pushed the 3 of us, Paloma, Jekka, and myself into making a community. I thought it was a brilliant idea. I had no problem with the previous community. I just thought it would be an awesome idea to start a community the way we wanted it. With our own rules. Our own shit. Yeah that's right. We didn't plan this thing for week's quiet honestly. I mentioned it in a chat on January 26th. I was snowed in the house and had nothing better to do. I found a few layouts, linked them to the chat with Paloma and Jekka. The next day was when we really started to take things seriously. So, call Jekka and Paloma all the names you want, but it was I that actually pushed us into starting the community. There was no evil scheming going on, we had no plans of taking over the world with our community. We just wanted a fun, drama-free environment, which still seemed to be lingering in the air even after Jekka left. So Jekka is not the cause of all your problems. How about you grow up, act your age and not your shoe size and man up to the fact that you have no one to blame but yourself.
B. The whole photobucket thing has gotten kind of ridiculous. I understand a lot of people have gotten hurt in the process, but it was as simple as saying "yes, i'll take down the pictures", instead you egged it on. You said to "try" and shut you down. That you had backups. Insinuating even if Paloma reported you, you still were not going to take them down. Instead you brought everyone in the community down with you. Yes, Jekka said at one point she didn't care if the community kept the cards, as long as she got the credit. But once your kicked Paloma and I out, she wanted nothing to do with the community and requested to have her card's taken down. It was a simply request, and again you have no one to blame but yourself.
C. The fact that people are calling Paloma is really aggravting. You really have nothing better to do with your life than call and leave voicemails calling her a cunt? You, my friend, are in fact the cunt in this situation. You don't even have the balls to identify yourself, just that it's "on behalf of everyone at the real bitches"? Good way to get the community and everyone in it banned from LiveJournal, genious. It's just immoral to personally attack someone outside of the internet world. Especially when the situation isn't even that serious. You mean your willing to lose your own personal journal just to look good and kiss someone's ass. Words can't even describe what kind of person you are.
D. I have not a problem with anyone in the community, until they take personal attacks against someone else. Even if it had been a random user, that would have easily been enough for me to leave and have nothing to do with the community. At this time, I'm really sick of all of this. Until said party can grow up and get over the fact that we made our own community, as if it is some sort of crime, I have a feeling this is going to continue. But that's fine. You can't bring us down either. Supposedly we are the cause of this? But you see that we have done nothing at all in the past 3 days that this has been going on, except make reasonable requests that were not followed through and ended up hurting more people that it should have. We want nothing to do with any of it anymore. And quite honestly, if it doesn't end soon, a lot more people are going to end up pissed off, because of actions we have to take when someone goes too far.
E. It's probably 29 degrees outside, but since I live in the great Bluegrass State, it's going to be a gleaming 47 degrees. Can we say global warming? Fuck this, I'm moving.
OH AND F. Duh. Now since we are considered the "drama starters" let me ask you a simple question. Anyone that is reading this from TRB, have you recieved any messages from Paloma, Jekka, or myself since all this started calling you names, telling you to watch out for CPS, calling any of you and leaving outrageously annoying voicemails? Honestly? No. So let's take a step back and really look at who is starting the drama. We have gone into no one's personal journal to bash them or rip them apart. We don't send you private messages. We don't find your facebook. We actually want nothing to do with the community or anyone in it who is doing said things. So are we the ones who are really starting the drama? No. In fact, if it was up to us, none of this would be going on. Let's all stop assuming shit and get the fact's straight,
PS. I realize have of you on my friend's list have no earthly idea what's going on, and that is just fine. :]
PPS. I said an unbiased stand, and that is what I did, because I can honestly say that the 3 of us have done NOTHING in the past 3 days to anyone in that community but defend ourselves when attacked. So what you are reading is the honest truth of what is and has gone on.
PPPS. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!!!
as I'm not too huge into the whole livejournal drama thing.
But since generally I am a quiet person, I think I'll go ahead and speak my mind.
From an unbiased-not-anyone's-best-friend point of view.
Plus I'd like to clear up a few things that some simple minded people seem to be confused about.
A. Jekka did not scheme and plan to make a community to destroy The Real Bitches. If anyone is to be at fault for the community it should actually be me. I was the one who came up with the name. I was the one who got the layout for our community. I helped Jekka pick how the cards should look. I made the application. I made the activities. I pushed the 3 of us, Paloma, Jekka, and myself into making a community. I thought it was a brilliant idea. I had no problem with the previous community. I just thought it would be an awesome idea to start a community the way we wanted it. With our own rules. Our own shit. Yeah that's right. We didn't plan this thing for week's quiet honestly. I mentioned it in a chat on January 26th. I was snowed in the house and had nothing better to do. I found a few layouts, linked them to the chat with Paloma and Jekka. The next day was when we really started to take things seriously. So, call Jekka and Paloma all the names you want, but it was I that actually pushed us into starting the community. There was no evil scheming going on, we had no plans of taking over the world with our community. We just wanted a fun, drama-free environment, which still seemed to be lingering in the air even after Jekka left. So Jekka is not the cause of all your problems. How about you grow up, act your age and not your shoe size and man up to the fact that you have no one to blame but yourself.
B. The whole photobucket thing has gotten kind of ridiculous. I understand a lot of people have gotten hurt in the process, but it was as simple as saying "yes, i'll take down the pictures", instead you egged it on. You said to "try" and shut you down. That you had backups. Insinuating even if Paloma reported you, you still were not going to take them down. Instead you brought everyone in the community down with you. Yes, Jekka said at one point she didn't care if the community kept the cards, as long as she got the credit. But once your kicked Paloma and I out, she wanted nothing to do with the community and requested to have her card's taken down. It was a simply request, and again you have no one to blame but yourself.
C. The fact that people are calling Paloma is really aggravting. You really have nothing better to do with your life than call and leave voicemails calling her a cunt? You, my friend, are in fact the cunt in this situation. You don't even have the balls to identify yourself, just that it's "on behalf of everyone at the real bitches"? Good way to get the community and everyone in it banned from LiveJournal, genious. It's just immoral to personally attack someone outside of the internet world. Especially when the situation isn't even that serious. You mean your willing to lose your own personal journal just to look good and kiss someone's ass. Words can't even describe what kind of person you are.
D. I have not a problem with anyone in the community, until they take personal attacks against someone else. Even if it had been a random user, that would have easily been enough for me to leave and have nothing to do with the community. At this time, I'm really sick of all of this. Until said party can grow up and get over the fact that we made our own community, as if it is some sort of crime, I have a feeling this is going to continue. But that's fine. You can't bring us down either. Supposedly we are the cause of this? But you see that we have done nothing at all in the past 3 days that this has been going on, except make reasonable requests that were not followed through and ended up hurting more people that it should have. We want nothing to do with any of it anymore. And quite honestly, if it doesn't end soon, a lot more people are going to end up pissed off, because of actions we have to take when someone goes too far.
E. It's probably 29 degrees outside, but since I live in the great Bluegrass State, it's going to be a gleaming 47 degrees. Can we say global warming? Fuck this, I'm moving.
OH AND F. Duh. Now since we are considered the "drama starters" let me ask you a simple question. Anyone that is reading this from TRB, have you recieved any messages from Paloma, Jekka, or myself since all this started calling you names, telling you to watch out for CPS, calling any of you and leaving outrageously annoying voicemails? Honestly? No. So let's take a step back and really look at who is starting the drama. We have gone into no one's personal journal to bash them or rip them apart. We don't send you private messages. We don't find your facebook. We actually want nothing to do with the community or anyone in it who is doing said things. So are we the ones who are really starting the drama? No. In fact, if it was up to us, none of this would be going on. Let's all stop assuming shit and get the fact's straight,
PS. I realize have of you on my friend's list have no earthly idea what's going on, and that is just fine. :]
PPS. I said an unbiased stand, and that is what I did, because I can honestly say that the 3 of us have done NOTHING in the past 3 days to anyone in that community but defend ourselves when attacked. So what you are reading is the honest truth of what is and has gone on.
PPPS. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!!!