Good Ol Melo!
So I was reading through my old melodramatic journal. This stuff is classic.
imakeameanomelet: what i took for granted
imakeameanomelet: was my memories i made with her
imakeameanomelet: being able to think back to the last time we kissed
imakeameanomelet: the last time we held eachother
imakeameanomelet: and the last time we said "i love you"
If i could give anyone a single piece of advice it would be don't date until you're ready to meet your wife/husband. I don't regret falling in love with emily when i did and I don't regret what we had and when we had it, but it would just be so much more amazing if I could've had that all with the person I'm going to marry. I don't think that I will never fall in love again and I don't doubt that I will love my wife even more than I loved emily. However, it will not be the same. Emily was my first love. When I think back, i remember the discovery of falling in love, the newness, the incredible amazing feeling it was to realize...wow...so this is it. It will be different with my wife. Not to say i've ruined it, but i kinda did. It will be amazing in a different way of thinking. It will be kinda hard to deal with the fact that it's going to be different than what i had with emily, but i think god will provide a bit of help with that. So back to my point (since i don't post in LJ unless i have a REALLY good point to make), don't date until you're ready. And if you have to ask yourself if you're ready, you're probably not. Trust me on this one.
"Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires." Song of Solomon 8:3-5
P.S. This is mainly aimed to people who have a relationship with God. My beliefs may not be applicable to many people, but trust me on this one...i'm just right=D
imakeameanomelet: what i took for granted
imakeameanomelet: was my memories i made with her
imakeameanomelet: being able to think back to the last time we kissed
imakeameanomelet: the last time we held eachother
imakeameanomelet: and the last time we said "i love you"
If i could give anyone a single piece of advice it would be don't date until you're ready to meet your wife/husband. I don't regret falling in love with emily when i did and I don't regret what we had and when we had it, but it would just be so much more amazing if I could've had that all with the person I'm going to marry. I don't think that I will never fall in love again and I don't doubt that I will love my wife even more than I loved emily. However, it will not be the same. Emily was my first love. When I think back, i remember the discovery of falling in love, the newness, the incredible amazing feeling it was to realize...wow...so this is it. It will be different with my wife. Not to say i've ruined it, but i kinda did. It will be amazing in a different way of thinking. It will be kinda hard to deal with the fact that it's going to be different than what i had with emily, but i think god will provide a bit of help with that. So back to my point (since i don't post in LJ unless i have a REALLY good point to make), don't date until you're ready. And if you have to ask yourself if you're ready, you're probably not. Trust me on this one.
"Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires." Song of Solomon 8:3-5
P.S. This is mainly aimed to people who have a relationship with God. My beliefs may not be applicable to many people, but trust me on this one...i'm just right=D