it wasn't a secret pallermagictechieAugust 27 2006, 03:21:47 UTC
yep i figured as much. having written many ambiguous, anguished things from when mahonri and i broke up, i recognized it immeadetaly. but i'm serious, don't let sadness become depression. and eat some chocolate. i recomend ben and jerrys. maybe watcha good movie where everyone is more sad than you. and laugh at them.
give the details when you feel comfortable. it will all be ok.
Re: it wasn't a secret palleremmalayeeAugust 27 2006, 03:53:08 UTC
it was all him. he began to feel that ultimately we weren't going to be right for each other in the end. so, rather than waiting it out and having it hurt more for both us somewhere down the road, he decided to actually listen to himself and act on that.
we're still good friends so far. these past few days we've still hung out quite a bit--he doesn't want any apect of our friendship to change, and was greatful when i finally agreed to remain friends b/c initially i didn't think it would be a good idea. but i think that's actually helping me through this terrible transition in some messed up way. i really couldn't picture him just being cut out of my life, but it's still so hard to face.
i cried so much initially, but i'm starting to get control of myself and understand that things happen for a reason, and so i just keep telling myself that, and it helps. of course i don't know the reasons for it now, but eventually it'll all make sense again.
Re: it wasn't a secret pallermagictechieAugust 27 2006, 18:24:55 UTC
pretty much thats exactly how it happened with mahonri, except once we talked about it i agreed that breaking up was the best and i was glad he wanted to stay friends becasue we'd been friends for 6 years before we dated adn he's a very important part of m life. but i'm sure you'll figure it out, and i promise that you'll stop crying eventually, and it will all be ok. i know how you feel.
Re: it wasn't a secret pallermagictechieAugust 28 2006, 01:49:36 UTC
i'm glad you two will still be friends, emily, that is the best way to end something. being cut off sucks a lot. i'm really sad to hear that things are tough, i know the feeling. i agree with ariel; eat some ice cream. it's amazing stuff.
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we're still good friends so far. these past few days we've still hung out quite a bit--he doesn't want any apect of our friendship to change, and was greatful when i finally agreed to remain friends b/c initially i didn't think it would be a good idea. but i think that's actually helping me through this terrible transition in some messed up way. i really couldn't picture him just being cut out of my life, but it's still so hard to face.
i cried so much initially, but i'm starting to get control of myself and understand that things happen for a reason, and so i just keep telling myself that, and it helps. of course i don't know the reasons for it now, but eventually it'll all make sense again.
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