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emmabovary

The waxing and waning of me

Apr 29, 2018 23:25

Phil sent me a text saying he needed to come out to Normandy to pick up his personal effects and we needed to arrange a time when I would not be here for this to take place ( Read more... )

end of love, phil, love

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msmidge April 29 2018, 21:34:00 UTC

You're very kind. I would be tempted to leave it all at the end of the driveway for him to pick up, and if it rains, it rains.

emmabovary April 29 2018, 21:44:05 UTC

Yeah, maybe. I think I'm having an emotional moment here. God I hope it passes quickly.

emmabovary April 29 2018, 21:44:33 UTC

and of course it IS raining, because it always rains in Normandy. :)

msmidge April 29 2018, 21:45:29 UTC

Maybe half-heartedly throw a tarp over it for plausible deniability.

emmabovary April 29 2018, 21:48:50 UTC

Ha ha. I did put all of his stuff in a shed, and texted him that he could find it there. He responded that that wasn't a good place for his stuff since it would absorb the Normandy humidity.

And then I was like FUCK YOU PHIL. You could have just said thanks for packing up my stuff.

So I just left it in the shed. Because I'm nice, but not that nice.

msmidge April 29 2018, 21:52:05 UTC

Oh, boo hoo, Phil.

lookfar April 30 2018, 12:26:48 UTC

Totally spot on. "The Normandy humidity -" Jaysus, man, then take a day off work and rescue your things.

BTW, did you change your locks? You might want to.

emmabovary April 30 2018, 14:09:23 UTC

I haven't changed my locks. Phil would never do anything nefarious or hurtful above and beyond what he already has done. I'm sure he will leave his keys once he picks up his stuff. Remember: he left me, not the other way around, so he has no anger nor sadness which would prompt him to do anything vengeful regarding the house. No, I'm not worried about that in the least.

I will change the locks once he picks up his stuff; but only because his girlfriend could have copied the keys and you just can't be too prudent in these circumstances.

lookfar April 30 2018, 15:19:18 UTC

I guess I was worried that he would go in and take a look around to see if anything of his was overlooked, and that might feel invasive.

emmabovary April 30 2018, 15:52:36 UTC

No, he actually should do that. Anyway, he has to go inside because his wine (which, really, he should have left for me because it would have been the right thing to do) is there, as well as his tools.

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