The most depressing thing ever...
So yesterday Josh told me that he's going to be a father. To me...that is the most depressing thing I have EVER heard. A boy who couldn't even take care of his own cat is going to father a child. With a girl who already has 1 kid, and is only 24. And not married. She's collecting baby daddy's like no tomorrow! And this kid will be just another unwanted, unplanned for child in this world. And Josh can barely afford to live himself...and now he's going to pay for a child? What kind of future does that kid have?
This whole thing has just gotten me so damned depressed. People are cranking out kids without any thought to the consequences...even with the way this world is. It's so scary living in this world right now, and people are bringing kids into this world without any planning...just because. Just because they can, or because an accident happened or whatever. I don't think I will ever have a child, but if I ever were to you can damned well bet I would have a plan, and some savings, and be married to a stable man who will be there for my children and loves me. I believe that children should see a truly loving home. I grew up in a loving family, and I believe it made me a better person for it. I would want to pass that experience along to my child.
Anyways...sorry for the emo post...but I'm kind of losing hope on life...
This whole thing has just gotten me so damned depressed. People are cranking out kids without any thought to the consequences...even with the way this world is. It's so scary living in this world right now, and people are bringing kids into this world without any planning...just because. Just because they can, or because an accident happened or whatever. I don't think I will ever have a child, but if I ever were to you can damned well bet I would have a plan, and some savings, and be married to a stable man who will be there for my children and loves me. I believe that children should see a truly loving home. I grew up in a loving family, and I believe it made me a better person for it. I would want to pass that experience along to my child.
Anyways...sorry for the emo post...but I'm kind of losing hope on life...