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I have past issues I really need to work through. Mainly because they bring me down in the present. I'll be frank with all of you about this. I don't tend to talk about it because I feel it is a very petty and pathetic side of me...but...I will talk about it here. A lot of the time I feel left out in life. People seem to think I am social, but in
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It probably won't help much, but I see your point (as much as I can).
I remember you as -ALWAYS- being overserious about things, even things that weren't very sreious themselves.
All I can really say is.. No matter what you do in life, not everyone is going to like you. That being said.. those are the same people that shouldn't affect you because they simply are not worth the time and effort. As for being social.. there is nothing wrong with that but don't try so hard that you aren't being true to yourself. A lot of your 'undesireable' feeling is your own perception of the matter and yourself and oftentimes that isn't the case. It's a self image issue that you will have to work past a little at a time to the point that it will stop bothering you and stop affecting the way you perceive others' feelings towards you.
As for the ditsy moments.. there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, quite the contrary. That just makes you a more enjoyable person to be around because you are fun and outgoing. Don't let it bother you so much and accept that not everyone is going to be receptive to you and move on past those people that would otherwise bring you down or cause you to doubt yourself.
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Glad to hear you aren't like that though, because it is a much bigger issue if you were.
I hope it all gets figured out.
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