Oy Vey

Jun 14, 2010 01:11

I'm so tired. We celebrated my Grandma's 85th birthday at my aunt's house today. It was pretty cool, my aunt has a pool so there was much swimming and enjoyment ( Read more... )

holidays, general, family, me, life

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omg that icon! LOVE IT! dauntdraws June 14 2010, 18:55:36 UTC
Oh holy crap, I reread my comment and was like...baffled at how weird I sound in it. I was TRYING to offer some comfort and just wound up talking about myself!

It's awesome you and your mom have a good relationship. It's great you two can agree to disagree and respect each other's thoughts and beliefs.

I actually was born in Ohio and visit every so often as I have cousins there. It's really gorgeous there! I used to love how the storms would sweep in so fast...

Don't worry too much about your aunt. Honestly I've felt that way before but then I think back to things family and friends have said to me that make me go 'wha??' but it didn't make me stop loving them, you know? Maybe thinking about it like that will help? It would be great if they could see your point of view but even so, I bet they just find themselves disagreeing and won't think much of it a few weeks from now. <3

Oooh see, that makes so much sense. I was exactly the same way, I couldn't sleep some nights because I would just antagonize myself with things I thought I'd done wrong. It's awesome you're taking something for it, I found it really helped me when I was overloading on anxiety...

Oh I am rambling like crazy! Happy to help though with my other comment, I hope it was a little useful. :)

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Re: omg that icon! LOVE IT! emella June 15 2010, 21:02:24 UTC
Haha Thanks!! I have more icons and junk at cherry_sin although I warn you most of them are before I got my design degree.

Dude, no you totally weren't talking about yourself, I get that feeling and no it's TOTALLY cool. I love learning about other peeps and it helps when people share in their experiences.

Haha Ohio is pretty sometimes, the gray can really get to you, but the cornfields, blue skies, and my god the sunsets are amazing.

I think it's hard for members of my family, like my aunt, to see me as an adult, due to the fact that I am like the youngest of the young, plus the fact that we have disagreeing points of view when it comes to certain things. I totally get what you mean about people saying things and like you go 'what?!' but you still care for them, it's uniquely a familial thing. :D

The medication thing is something I struggle with. I honestly don't think I need medication, I don't think there is anything 'wrong' with me, I honestly think it's just that I have bad coping skills when it comes to emotions, the medication helps, but I feel like there are ways around that, just with living healthier and with better skills. *Shrug* It is what it is though and until I'm better I'll just have to keep on keeping on.

Dude, ramble away, you seem super cool and I give you a thumbs up. :D

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