Just me?

Jun 04, 2009 10:43

Sometimes I feel like the ONLY person on the planet who isn't all about having children. LOTS of children ( Read more... )

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nellorat June 4 2009, 16:07:52 UTC
We three are also childfree (except the rattumses) by choice. Most of my friends are, to the extent that I'm usually vaguely surprised when a friend chooses to procreate.

I'm not that concerned with overpopulation-- I'm not totally sure why, but not having children certainly is one reason, because I think most things human beings can do (atomic weapons excluded) would wipe out people or ruin human lives but leave Mother Earth chugging along in her own way, and my spice and I probably won't be around to see it. That seems harsh, but there you go.

I agree that adoption in the USA needs a major overhaul. OTOH, when that drives people to other countries, that isn't such a bad thing. My only nephew is from Chile, for instance, because eldersib and Math Guy were deemed slightlt too old to adopt in the USA.

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embeth June 4 2009, 16:12:59 UTC
It just doesn't make any sense to me that there are children out there who need homes and adoptive families are being turned away based on things like age, sexual orientation, job choice, etc.

Capitalism - not always FTW.

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shawnaree June 4 2009, 19:28:40 UTC
I love love love love that you call them your spice. Makes me so happy! (not that you call them that to make me happy...). You rock!

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nellorat June 5 2009, 03:15:39 UTC
Thanx! I feel so lucky, every single day--either one of the guys is a magnificent blessing, and here we are, me married to both.

Plus: three incomes + no human children = more money to spend on rattie vet bills.

I yam so grateful!

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shawnaree June 5 2009, 04:04:52 UTC
You are definitely blessed to have such wonderful people in your life!

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