Dec 26, 2026 22:12
One of your friends is seeking a bit more independence in your relationship, and it could feel like they are pushing you away. Do not let your fears get the better of you. Just because they are being vague about future plans or saying 'no' a little bit more often to your social invitations does not mean that they are changing how they feel about you. Learning how to be alone is a skill everyone should learn, and they are in the midst of their lesson now. Give them space.
You cannot go forward when you're looking in the rearview mirror -- a bad accident is sure to happen, and it might be one you can't walk away from. So pay attention to what is going on around you and focus on the here-and-now, today. Yesterday is old news, and it will only distract you from seeing where you need to go. Let go of old ideas and lost opportunities and make room for new challenges and new hopes. There are things beyond your control. The sooner you accept that, the better.