this is true...
The Lover and the Beloved
Indeed, no lover seeks union without his beloved seeking him.
But the love of lovers makes their bodies into bowstrings,
while the love of beloveds makes them happy and plump.
When the lightning of love for the loved one flashes in _this_ heart,
know that there is also love in _that_ heart.
When love for God has doubled in your heart,
without doubt God has love for you.
You have never heard one hand clapping without the other.
The thirsty man laments, "Oh sweet water!"
The water also laments, "Where is the drinker!"
This thirst in our souls is the attraction of the Water -
we belong to It and It belongs to us.
[Jalaluddin Rumi's Mathnawi, book 3, vv. 4393-4399,
from "The Sufi Path of Love," translated by W. C. Chittick, p.209.]
Indeed, no lover seeks union without his beloved seeking him.
But the love of lovers makes their bodies into bowstrings,
while the love of beloveds makes them happy and plump.
When the lightning of love for the loved one flashes in _this_ heart,
know that there is also love in _that_ heart.
When love for God has doubled in your heart,
without doubt God has love for you.
You have never heard one hand clapping without the other.
The thirsty man laments, "Oh sweet water!"
The water also laments, "Where is the drinker!"
This thirst in our souls is the attraction of the Water -
we belong to It and It belongs to us.
[Jalaluddin Rumi's Mathnawi, book 3, vv. 4393-4399,
from "The Sufi Path of Love," translated by W. C. Chittick, p.209.]