I am very disappointed in the so called "LJ friend" who read my post about 'my new boyfriend' and distributed it. (You know who you are).
The situation is very complicated, and I described the situation in very very simple terms. The use of the word "boyfriend" was a bit premature. "Potential new boyfriend" would have been better. It was also meant to be read by people with M.E/Fibro who understand what sort of chances a relationship has by people with our disease (not a lot - but at the same time, a cause for huge celebration).
This has caused a huge amount of trouble and hurt. It would have been better had you let the actual people involved in the actual situation sort it out for themselves..