Get A Life!!!!!
anonymous
January 1 2004, 15:49:17 UTC
Chris, I am from California, and have heard your strong, emotional, tear jerking story for the past year. But I could no longer stay in the dark and NOT say anything.
When someone makes a commitment to do something, they do the BEST they can to uphold the commitment. When something better comes along, people usually don't blow off the first commitment and precede to something else.
You have another fan that thinks you are selfish and self centered. This is not about you, Chris. This is about keeping commitments to the people you care about, and remaining loyal to the people you supposedly are friends with.
I guess getting drunk was more important than spending an hour at the arcade which had already been planned in advance. Please don't try to brush off your responsibility in this situation. You just didn't follow through, and you are finding anything remotely possible as an excuse for your actions.
Please, before you or anyone else decides to BLOW ME OFF in this journal, these are MY opinions. We are fortunate that we can air our "dirty laundry" on the "net", since this is why I am responding to your detailed story of your best friend over-reacting to you.
Take care, Chris. California wishes you the very best in your emotional, self centered crisis!! Once in a while, try to truly look in yourself for why you are the way you are, and stop BLAMING others around you!
Re: Get A Life!!!!!elkoralishJanuary 1 2004, 16:13:22 UTC
I must admit that I am at a loss for your identity, as you seem to have some personal insight and very few people on the west coast should have any personal knowledge of me.
Be that as it may, I would like to state that I blame nobody but myself in any of these situations, if you look back through my journal entries you'll see that. Granted, there have been many times I did not understand the situation; in fact I did not understand the situation for several years leading up to this one. As for the situation with my friend, I did not brush him off for an opportunity to get drunk nor would I (I can do that at any time for chrissakes) and I did attempt to follow through with plan A. But, as I stated, everything was closed when we arrived and we literally walked the abandoned boardwalk. I said that I felt he overreacted, and I do.. that is from my point of view. I am sure he felt justified in his actions or he would not have reacted the way he did. My problem wasn't with his being upset with me, although that does trouble me and I am very sorry that it occurred, it is with the call he placed to my wife that he KNEW would upset her and the fact that I cannot trust him with information for fear that he will turn around the next time he is upset and divulge something extremely personal in order to hurt me. These things are simply unacceptable.
I assure you I am not blowing you off, I try to take any and all opinions into account and I try to look at things from every possible angle so I will investigate the things you propose. If you would like to tell me who you are but do not want to disclose that here, you can email me at elkoralish@livejornal.com
When someone makes a commitment to do something, they do the BEST they can to uphold the commitment. When something better comes along, people usually don't blow off the first commitment and precede to something else.
You have another fan that thinks you are selfish and self centered. This is not about you, Chris. This is about keeping commitments to the people you care about, and remaining loyal to the people you supposedly are friends with.
I guess getting drunk was more important than spending an hour at the arcade which had already been planned in advance. Please don't try to brush off your responsibility in this situation. You just didn't follow through, and you are finding anything remotely possible as an excuse for your actions.
Please, before you or anyone else decides to BLOW ME OFF in this journal, these are MY opinions. We are fortunate that we can air our "dirty laundry" on the "net", since this is why I am responding to your detailed story of your best friend over-reacting to you.
Take care, Chris. California wishes you the very best in your emotional, self centered crisis!! Once in a while, try to truly look in yourself for why you are the way you are, and stop BLAMING others around you!
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Be that as it may, I would like to state that I blame nobody but myself in any of these situations, if you look back through my journal entries you'll see that. Granted, there have been many times I did not understand the situation; in fact I did not understand the situation for several years leading up to this one.
As for the situation with my friend, I did not brush him off for an opportunity to get drunk nor would I (I can do that at any time for chrissakes) and I did attempt to follow through with plan A. But, as I stated, everything was closed when we arrived and we literally walked the abandoned boardwalk. I said that I felt he overreacted, and I do.. that is from my point of view. I am sure he felt justified in his actions or he would not have reacted the way he did. My problem wasn't with his being upset with me, although that does trouble me and I am very sorry that it occurred, it is with the call he placed to my wife that he KNEW would upset her and the fact that I cannot trust him with information for fear that he will turn around the next time he is upset and divulge something extremely personal in order to hurt me. These things are simply unacceptable.
I assure you I am not blowing you off, I try to take any and all opinions into account and I try to look at things from every possible angle so I will investigate the things you propose. If you would like to tell me who you are but do not want to disclose that here, you can email me at elkoralish@livejornal.com
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