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so it's snowing, or at least was an hour ago. not so much near home, but work had 2-3 inches. that was fun, since i haven't driven much in the snow. but now it also means moving...in the snow. shouldn't be too bad, and will definitely keep me warm. it's gonna take a couple days, with just the jeep, but it is do-able. i kinda like that i am taking care of it all, on my own two feet. i am paying for it all, physically doing it all, and making the decisions. i know it seems a bit perhaps a bit silly to want to be responsible for all of it, not having someone else cover me, but wheat can i say, i'm a proud person. i like my feet better than another's shoulders.
parent's aren't too thrilled, but that's not to be helped. I'd eventually have made this move anyway, so now our stances are just made clearer a bit earlier. I always figured the threat would be financially based, i just didn't realize it would be "dowry" based. oh well for that as well i guess, just means there is no obligations as to time and such. we'll get there when we're ready.
and onto "dowry's", my crazy, woman-hating, redneck, welding uncle is...getting married, after dating the woman for like...4 or 5 months. guess that's the same as my parent's but i thought, no matter how well they were getting along, that 4 months is a bit...short to make THAT decision on. as my mother believes "when you know you know", and i guess he's heeled enough to know it and jump.
parent's aren't too thrilled, but that's not to be helped. I'd eventually have made this move anyway, so now our stances are just made clearer a bit earlier. I always figured the threat would be financially based, i just didn't realize it would be "dowry" based. oh well for that as well i guess, just means there is no obligations as to time and such. we'll get there when we're ready.
and onto "dowry's", my crazy, woman-hating, redneck, welding uncle is...getting married, after dating the woman for like...4 or 5 months. guess that's the same as my parent's but i thought, no matter how well they were getting along, that 4 months is a bit...short to make THAT decision on. as my mother believes "when you know you know", and i guess he's heeled enough to know it and jump.