Rules
Rules. Many d/s relationships have a list of rules (mostly for the sub, but sometimes including the dom). I don't have many rules for elf, but I do have guidelines. There are also shared rules, and hopes for the future.
While I'm away we decided writing about ours would be good way to keep up our d/s. Traveling and adjusting to a foreign land has left me with less energy than I'd have liked to put into it (I particularly ran out of time for the future rules). However, it has been a wonderful way to think about my pet, and all the fabulous things she does.
Rules of the relationship for both:
- Always be honest
- Use safewords.
- Respect the use of safewords - there will be no punishment or belittling of the use of a safeword, regardless of circumstances.
- Needs come before wants, on either side.
- BDSM play with others will be discussed first, everytime.
Rules will always be followed and pet will be punished for any infraction.
Rules for pet:
- You will not allow anyone but me to play with your collar or leash.
- You will take off my shoes when I come home as soon as practical.
a. During the winter you will bring me slippers.
- When showering together you will wash my hair and my cock.
- At meals you will wait for me to begin eating before taking a bite.
- Pet will follow orders promptly.
a. You may ask for a delay, and should have a reason.
b. You may ask to be exempted with reason.
- Pet must remember that Master's wants are more important than hers and will treat them as such.
- You must be accept a scene or sexual use whenever Master wishes.
- Pet must complete assignments promptly.
Guidelines are behaviors I like and appreciate. These are not required, but rather as a variety of ways you can please me and show your submission and devotion.
Guidelines for pet:
- Pet will try to please her Master whenever and however she can.
- When taking my shoes or bringing slippers you will do so on your knees whenever possible.
- When showering together you will wash all of me if time allows.
- Allow Master to order for you at restaurants.
a. Currently this requires informing me of your likes and dislikes.
- You should dress in an appealing and sexy fashion when we go out.
- Pet should walk a half step behind, preferably touching Master's arm.
- Pet should express her reactions to what is done with her.
- Pet should ask for permission before cumming.
- Pet should not talk back to her Master.
a. Brattiness is acceptable but will be punished.
b. Pet may talk back when Master is wrong, respectfully of course (see a).
- Pet should keep her legs and cunt shaved to Master's liking.
- Pet should be sure Master is well aware of her orgasms.
- Pet should thank her Master for pleasure given (orgasm, bondage, etc)
- Thanks for other things (spankings, punishment, etc) is also appreciated.
- Pet should not refuse Master's suggestions for her clothing.
- Master is correct unless you are sure he's made an error - Master should be assumed to be correct at all times.
- Pet should take an active role in serving her Master.
- Master loves easter eggs.
Rules for Master:
- Master must punish pet for rule infractions fairly.
- Master will give pet as much after-care as she desires and appropriate to the situation.
- Master will read all entries in pet's journal promptly.
- Intense use or punish will be done only with full awareness of its effect on pet.
Guildelines for Master:
- A happy pet is a good pet; Master should be aware of what keeps pet happy.
- Keep pet warm at all times.
- Pet is strengthened by Master's touch and look.
- Pet is most effected by words and intesity.
For the future:
- Master will order pet's food in restaurants without input.
- When with Master, pet will only cum with permission.
- Pet will wear Master's collar at all times.
While I'm away we decided writing about ours would be good way to keep up our d/s. Traveling and adjusting to a foreign land has left me with less energy than I'd have liked to put into it (I particularly ran out of time for the future rules). However, it has been a wonderful way to think about my pet, and all the fabulous things she does.
Rules of the relationship for both:
- Always be honest
- Use safewords.
- Respect the use of safewords - there will be no punishment or belittling of the use of a safeword, regardless of circumstances.
- Needs come before wants, on either side.
- BDSM play with others will be discussed first, everytime.
Rules will always be followed and pet will be punished for any infraction.
Rules for pet:
- You will not allow anyone but me to play with your collar or leash.
- You will take off my shoes when I come home as soon as practical.
a. During the winter you will bring me slippers.
- When showering together you will wash my hair and my cock.
- At meals you will wait for me to begin eating before taking a bite.
- Pet will follow orders promptly.
a. You may ask for a delay, and should have a reason.
b. You may ask to be exempted with reason.
- Pet must remember that Master's wants are more important than hers and will treat them as such.
- You must be accept a scene or sexual use whenever Master wishes.
- Pet must complete assignments promptly.
Guidelines are behaviors I like and appreciate. These are not required, but rather as a variety of ways you can please me and show your submission and devotion.
Guidelines for pet:
- Pet will try to please her Master whenever and however she can.
- When taking my shoes or bringing slippers you will do so on your knees whenever possible.
- When showering together you will wash all of me if time allows.
- Allow Master to order for you at restaurants.
a. Currently this requires informing me of your likes and dislikes.
- You should dress in an appealing and sexy fashion when we go out.
- Pet should walk a half step behind, preferably touching Master's arm.
- Pet should express her reactions to what is done with her.
- Pet should ask for permission before cumming.
- Pet should not talk back to her Master.
a. Brattiness is acceptable but will be punished.
b. Pet may talk back when Master is wrong, respectfully of course (see a).
- Pet should keep her legs and cunt shaved to Master's liking.
- Pet should be sure Master is well aware of her orgasms.
- Pet should thank her Master for pleasure given (orgasm, bondage, etc)
- Thanks for other things (spankings, punishment, etc) is also appreciated.
- Pet should not refuse Master's suggestions for her clothing.
- Master is correct unless you are sure he's made an error - Master should be assumed to be correct at all times.
- Pet should take an active role in serving her Master.
- Master loves easter eggs.
Rules for Master:
- Master must punish pet for rule infractions fairly.
- Master will give pet as much after-care as she desires and appropriate to the situation.
- Master will read all entries in pet's journal promptly.
- Intense use or punish will be done only with full awareness of its effect on pet.
Guildelines for Master:
- A happy pet is a good pet; Master should be aware of what keeps pet happy.
- Keep pet warm at all times.
- Pet is strengthened by Master's touch and look.
- Pet is most effected by words and intesity.
For the future:
- Master will order pet's food in restaurants without input.
- When with Master, pet will only cum with permission.
- Pet will wear Master's collar at all times.