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[elemental_moon]

Part of the reason I am being accused of being a Horrible Terrible Person and The Worst Friend Ever is that I supposedly caused stress and damaged a wedding by cruelly choosing a moment immediately before this wedding to tell the bride and groom that I did not want them involved in my own wedding. Worse, I supposedly did this because I was throwing

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[one_of_tha_few]

Yes, we had the conversation about who was in your wedding party just about two weeks ago...give or take...but *definitely* well after the wedding. So far after in fact that the accusation made against you cannot even be construed as anything but a blatant malicious lie.

If there's one thing I cannot condone or forgive its blatant malicious lies...especially the kind intended to force other people to pick sides...specifically one's own. It's mean spirited, small, cowardly and evil. Not to mention 100% unforgivable.

It really sickens me when some people feel as if every other person should accept them for who they are, no matter how messed up, but they cannot accept others. If the majority of people you meet, family and friends, have a hard time dealing with the same personality traits you hold they probably are correct and you probably should change them. I'm not about to make an absolute statement on this, in rare situations the majority are unreasonable and the individual is being mistreated...but for the most part it's the other way around. If you consistently have people complain about a certain trait you have either accept that others will not and should not have to deal with it, or change it. Nobody should be self-centered enough to expect other people to consistently take abuse from them (and I'm not talking about the occasional bad day). Not their friends, not their family, not their significant other...nobody.

And beyond that, because I value honesty, I think it's horrid to punish other people for being honest and straightforward. Even if one doesn't like what they have to say, even if it doesn't seem fair. Listen to them, and if you don't like what they have to say, make a civil (no yelling or name calling) argument back, and if they respected you enough to tell you to your face, have the same courtesy, don't be a coward about your responses. If they yell or call you names, walk out on them. But do not do it back. It's juvenile, petty and unbecoming on anyone over the age of 15. Why is this so hard to get? It's so simple.

elemental_moon has listed people to back her up on her side of the story (aka the truth)...I would like to challenge her accusers to do the same...you should come up with witnesses to say that they were not in fact at the above meeting...and there should also be witness(s) listed to moon's alleged tantrum and subsequent revelation before the wedding to tell the bride/groom she didn't want them in her wedding...and these witnesses cannot be each other...

If you fail to produce witnesses (and I say witnesses because friends who say they believe you without seeing it themselves is not good enough) you are conceding your argument (aka the fabrication) no matter what you say, how many names you call or how loud you are about it and should apologize and leave moon alone. Or, since you're not big people, just plain quit harassing her.

I'm not writing this because I expect you to get why not coming up with some witnesses makes your irrational and mean spirited argument a provable lie no matter how simplistic it is. I'm putting this in here to show others that you have nothing to back your claims because I fully expect either no response or some long winded and idiotic rant that explains nothing except that you are malicious liars.