Amazing what people don't get

Aug 29, 2005 13:25

Forcing "help" on someone by saying, "if you don't take this, I'm going to hurt," and refusing to listen when they say "this isn't the kind of help I need anyway," is not beneficial to a situation. Getting angry with them when they become frustrated because your "help" is actually getting in the way is also not beneficial - neither is the frustration. And going for months saying "Well, I helped you, that makes me the good guy and you the bad guy," and holding that "help" over a person's head...just amazingly destructive.

Especially when that "help" has absolutely nothing to do with 95% of the situations following.
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