Some time has passed...
So yeah, it's been a while since I updated anything. Life has been somewhat insane lately. *sighs* Where to start...
My pregnancy seems to be going well. My energy levels are getting lower and lower here in the last 5 weeks. I can't believe in like...5 weeks, I'll be a mother.
Paul's band had a show. From what I'm to understand, it went pretty well. It was the first show that I didn't go to.
My great uncle died, and my dad took the news pretty hard. As soon as he found out, he got everything ready, and drove the 19 hour drive to Canada to be there.
The same day, I found out that my mothers mother, my grandmother was dying. She's very sick. Isn't going to make it. The doctors keep saying it'll only be a few more days.....and a whole week goes by. Last night they said it would only be a few more hours, and she was with us all night...and is still with us today.
All of the stress caused me to have a few stress-induced contractions..... so now, everytime something changes or happens, people freak out and make sure I'm "okay."
Well, almost everyone.
My mother has been in town since Granny was put in the hospital. It's weird having her so close to me.
I'm not handling Paul's band stuff anymore. We had a huge falling out over it, and I just as well stayed the hell out of the bullshit and drama than lose my husband.
The one and only baby shower that has been planned so far, is being thrown by a really close friend of mine, Leslie. The invitations are out, to those friends that I could actually GET in touch with. I didn't invite any family because my step mother told me she was going to have a shower for me, but that doesn't seem to be the case now. So now, I don't know what to do, but I am NOT handling pissed off famliy members that wanted to give my child lots of awesome stuff. Very disappointed that my mother, step-mother, and mother-in-law haven't done the first thing. Time is running out. I've got 5 weeks, which could very well turn into 2 or 3. I feel like it could be any minute now.
Pauls band doesn't have anymore shows scheduled, but are trying to get involved in this huge music festival thing that is touring the nation. They were invited to play, but at this point, don't have all of the information. However, the first few Atlanta dates are the same week that the baby is born.... so of course, I told him he couldn't play them, and might have to forget about the festival. MUCH disappointment.
We spent 4 nights with Paul's mother Paula...to visit with his ex, Tamara and their son, Ethan. Ethan's six, and by far, the coolest 6 year old I've every met. Very intelligent, very adorable, and very well-tempered. He's got a slight Minnesota-ian accent, which is cute. He was stuck to Paul like glue the entire time, so I didn't get much time to hang out with him. We played a few video games together though. He did mention that he wanted us to name the baby Ashley. We're considering.
I'll try to stay more active "online" I know it's the only way a lot of us keep in touch.....
My pregnancy seems to be going well. My energy levels are getting lower and lower here in the last 5 weeks. I can't believe in like...5 weeks, I'll be a mother.
Paul's band had a show. From what I'm to understand, it went pretty well. It was the first show that I didn't go to.
My great uncle died, and my dad took the news pretty hard. As soon as he found out, he got everything ready, and drove the 19 hour drive to Canada to be there.
The same day, I found out that my mothers mother, my grandmother was dying. She's very sick. Isn't going to make it. The doctors keep saying it'll only be a few more days.....and a whole week goes by. Last night they said it would only be a few more hours, and she was with us all night...and is still with us today.
All of the stress caused me to have a few stress-induced contractions..... so now, everytime something changes or happens, people freak out and make sure I'm "okay."
Well, almost everyone.
My mother has been in town since Granny was put in the hospital. It's weird having her so close to me.
I'm not handling Paul's band stuff anymore. We had a huge falling out over it, and I just as well stayed the hell out of the bullshit and drama than lose my husband.
The one and only baby shower that has been planned so far, is being thrown by a really close friend of mine, Leslie. The invitations are out, to those friends that I could actually GET in touch with. I didn't invite any family because my step mother told me she was going to have a shower for me, but that doesn't seem to be the case now. So now, I don't know what to do, but I am NOT handling pissed off famliy members that wanted to give my child lots of awesome stuff. Very disappointed that my mother, step-mother, and mother-in-law haven't done the first thing. Time is running out. I've got 5 weeks, which could very well turn into 2 or 3. I feel like it could be any minute now.
Pauls band doesn't have anymore shows scheduled, but are trying to get involved in this huge music festival thing that is touring the nation. They were invited to play, but at this point, don't have all of the information. However, the first few Atlanta dates are the same week that the baby is born.... so of course, I told him he couldn't play them, and might have to forget about the festival. MUCH disappointment.
We spent 4 nights with Paul's mother Paula...to visit with his ex, Tamara and their son, Ethan. Ethan's six, and by far, the coolest 6 year old I've every met. Very intelligent, very adorable, and very well-tempered. He's got a slight Minnesota-ian accent, which is cute. He was stuck to Paul like glue the entire time, so I didn't get much time to hang out with him. We played a few video games together though. He did mention that he wanted us to name the baby Ashley. We're considering.
I'll try to stay more active "online" I know it's the only way a lot of us keep in touch.....