Nov 11, 2006 19:32
What constitutes bisexuality? Where do we draw the line? Are there lines to draw?
Is it bisexual behaviour to kiss someone of both sexes and enjoy it, or is that merely sexually deviant behaviour? Perhaps in order to be truly Bi, one needs to have pursued, successfully or otherwise, a proper relationship within the same sex.
Are desire and action one and the same in such matters, or do you actually have to have done it?
For a long time i believed that nobody was truly orientated one way or the other. That if you were true in your pursuit of a match or love or whatever you want to call it then you would have to inevitablly accept that the one who matches your needs and connections most, might just be of the same gender as you.
To the same extent, why is it ok to say 'I Only Fancy Men' but not ok to say 'I Only Fancy White Men.'? Is it down to preference and taste alone? And how come it can all get you beatn up?
I mean, obviously there are no rules, but do you know something I don't? I'm a bit confused really. Does anyone know?