Guys. Before you IM me for the first time, YOU MUST READ THIS. I'm DEAD serious. (BTW, IM conversation used with permission of the other participant.) ( Read more... )
This isn't just a problem for women. I've gone through about 4 iterations of a Fantasy Feeder account, all of which had been bombarded with messages from (and strangely enough) men wanting to jump into a feeding relationship with me (ignoring the fact I wasn't seeking a relationship with a man). I found that the more information I provided to people (pictures, verbose profile sets etc) the more negative attention I garnered for myself. Once my profile began to cut the crap and become a synopsis, not my life story, the harassment came to an end.
I know some feederism blogs lend themselves to this attention as well. Detailed descriptions of the tinglies you get when you/your partner gorge or pop a button is bound to cause the same for your readers, and the socially inept see it as you making the first move. (Hence why they get a squirel in their knickers when you tell them to back off.)
I think the entire community needs to stop assuming that "ABOUT ME" sections are meant to be your all-inclusive life story. Set up a psychological "Gold Member" system where people who pass rigerous testing get to know more than others. You detailed blog/detailed life stories should only be for those who have made it past the initial ice breaking, not the people looking for new horizons.
I rather prefer the idea of calling these people out on their bad behavior and teaching them good behavior. What you're suggesting is rather the online equivalent of letting the "she was wearing a short skirt so she must have wanted it" people win. If we can combat that offline, we can do it online.
I know some feederism blogs lend themselves to this attention as well. Detailed descriptions of the tinglies you get when you/your partner gorge or pop a button is bound to cause the same for your readers, and the socially inept see it as you making the first move. (Hence why they get a squirel in their knickers when you tell them to back off.)
I think the entire community needs to stop assuming that "ABOUT ME" sections are meant to be your all-inclusive life story. Set up a psychological "Gold Member" system where people who pass rigerous testing get to know more than others. You detailed blog/detailed life stories should only be for those who have made it past the initial ice breaking, not the people looking for new horizons.
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