Musings over a rainy evening
Going from friends to more then just friends (I imagine) is always going to be an interesting experience.
Last night I ate, drank a little and watched (small whisper) Shrek 3. I then walked home in the rain. I like walking in the rain so I really enjoyed it.
As a cynical optimist with a streak of romantism it is not surprising that I get a little lost. I mean how hard is it for the stronger party to not be me. Anyway.
I digress.
I realised the other day that me and dates do not get on. I can see where they are heading and whats more I can what the other party is thinking.
Just an aside I have had one good one since I have been in Canberra. The difference being they didn't think they could buy my affection and well there were no expectations (or perhaps we already knew)
Generally it is how much do I have to do before I can get her to..... Maybe they would be a more enjoyable experience if I couldn't see this. But I unfortunately cannot turn this particular ability of mine off.
But just because someone is leaving the country and they decide to give you a declaration of undying love ( their words not mine) doesn't mean they should expect that you will sleep with them on the first date ( especially when they don't even try to kiss you at all during the evening)
So I remain firmly anti-rendezvous
Last night I ate, drank a little and watched (small whisper) Shrek 3. I then walked home in the rain. I like walking in the rain so I really enjoyed it.
As a cynical optimist with a streak of romantism it is not surprising that I get a little lost. I mean how hard is it for the stronger party to not be me. Anyway.
I digress.
I realised the other day that me and dates do not get on. I can see where they are heading and whats more I can what the other party is thinking.
Just an aside I have had one good one since I have been in Canberra. The difference being they didn't think they could buy my affection and well there were no expectations (or perhaps we already knew)
Generally it is how much do I have to do before I can get her to..... Maybe they would be a more enjoyable experience if I couldn't see this. But I unfortunately cannot turn this particular ability of mine off.
But just because someone is leaving the country and they decide to give you a declaration of undying love ( their words not mine) doesn't mean they should expect that you will sleep with them on the first date ( especially when they don't even try to kiss you at all during the evening)
So I remain firmly anti-rendezvous