... a trustful friendship
So, now I'm ok with those "friends", I'm even able to be merry and stupid around them again. But I can't say I'll ever have a "trustful" relationship with those people again. Not when work is concerned. They failed me once, and that's enough for me to say "yeah, I think this partneship is over".
But I think things are getting better now, at least I'm not arguing with them or avoiding them anymore. I can say they are now what we call "friends for fun", but not "friends for life", if you know what I mean. I still don't feel much at ease around them. I just hope the talk we had last week will make them see that everyone has their lives, and that they were rather selfish lately. That's not just me, but my other friends saying about this issue.
I also don't feel so bad anymore because I've found out that it's not just me who is a bit disappointed and a bit angry with this situation, there are many more who are or were feeling the same.
But I think things are getting better now, at least I'm not arguing with them or avoiding them anymore. I can say they are now what we call "friends for fun", but not "friends for life", if you know what I mean. I still don't feel much at ease around them. I just hope the talk we had last week will make them see that everyone has their lives, and that they were rather selfish lately. That's not just me, but my other friends saying about this issue.
I also don't feel so bad anymore because I've found out that it's not just me who is a bit disappointed and a bit angry with this situation, there are many more who are or were feeling the same.