Hmmm...

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I've been into the fashion for quite a long while now, but I have yet to actually WEAR lolita! I only own ONE black bustle skirt and a dead petticoat (lol). The top reason that is holding me back is that I just don't know what style speaks to me the most.My interests seem to be sloppy For example, I like Moitie a lot, but I can't help to just go googly-eyed for the simple, cutesy dresses from Baby, who was actually my first love, but I was too scared to wear "sweet"...and then there will be something from Putumayo that's a total "wildcard"...I hope I am making some sense.

This is just short and simple: How does one find "their style" in lolita?  How are you able to build your wardrobe? Are there any tips on how to find a style? I don't care about "brand loyalty", just FYI.

Thank you for your time.

[EDIT] Thank you all for the advice! So sorry I could not respond to all of you (gotta study), I will leave this up for everyone else who was on the same boat as me.