No, I'm not trying to define sharing a bed as cuddling, or vice versa - I left it purposely a bit vague in hopes that people would discuss it. :) I guess I was thinking, for the purposes of the question, about cuddly bed-sharing.
Oddly, cuddly bed sharing can be a bigger issue to me than sex. It depends on who my partner is and such. I long ago noted that the same physical acts are different depending on context. So for some people, cuddling is a very intimate thing. For others, just pleasant. I have had the situation before where for woman A to be cuddling in my bed is emotionally significant, wherehas for woman B it is low-key.
SO I think, much like sex itself, it is the kind of thing that needs to be communicated and discussed with a partner of significance.
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Oddly, cuddly bed sharing can be a bigger issue to me than sex. It depends on who my partner is and such. I long ago noted that the same physical acts are different depending on context. So for some people, cuddling is a very intimate thing. For others, just pleasant. I have had the situation before where for woman A to be cuddling in my bed is emotionally significant, wherehas for woman B it is low-key.
SO I think, much like sex itself, it is the kind of thing that needs to be communicated and discussed with a partner of significance.
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