Poll: cuddling & relationships

Jan 12, 2007 15:28

Poll Cuddletastic/"Monogamy flex"

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catness January 13 2007, 07:12:53 UTC
Is all platonic bed-sharing considered cuddling?

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baronprospect January 14 2007, 15:21:01 UTC
lol, yeah, I'm started reading this as 'sharing a bed' like just physically inhabiting it and now i'm confused.

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lightcastle January 15 2007, 02:23:42 UTC
Oh wait, it's not?

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eeblet January 16 2007, 18:38:32 UTC
No, I'm not trying to define sharing a bed as cuddling, or vice versa - I left it purposely a bit vague in hopes that people would discuss it. :) I guess I was thinking, for the purposes of the question, about cuddly bed-sharing.

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lightcastle January 23 2007, 06:06:18 UTC
In that case...

Oddly, cuddly bed sharing can be a bigger issue to me than sex. It depends on who my partner is and such. I long ago noted that the same physical acts are different depending on context. So for some people, cuddling is a very intimate thing. For others, just pleasant. I have had the situation before where for woman A to be cuddling in my bed is emotionally significant, wherehas for woman B it is low-key.

SO I think, much like sex itself, it is the kind of thing that needs to be communicated and discussed with a partner of significance.

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