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do you have something that defines you? like something that you tell new people and it's just one of those important things that people know about you and when you tell those new people they are like "wow, i didn't know that about you. really?" If i were one of the mulleneauxs it would probably be that i'm a triplet, or maybe if i was gay it would be that i was gay (but i don't really know if it would be because i've never been gay and i don't know what that feels like) or if i had just beaten cancer it would be that i just beat cancer. when i was a kid it was that i was a vegetarian. and when i moved back from germany it was that i had lived in germany. and right now i don't know what it is. i think it might be one of those things that you can't recognize until later when you are thinking about. it requires perspective. it's hard for me to describe, which could just be because i made it up and it doesn't exist. what is it for you?