Well, the rules were suddenly changed on me...
... and I did my darnedest to show my point of view; went ahead and agreed to something I'm uncomfortable with anyway. Told her that I wasn't going to put up with a double standard, but I feel all I got for my efforts was anger and insults tossed my way. I foresee having to remind her of the stance she has now taken regarding Theo as I piss her off over the coming weeks and months... *sigh*