Ah, yes, more suckiness yet to happen...

[ed209uardo]

... Her coming by this morning unannounced was the last straw. She's the one that left, she's no longer on the lease, and I will no longer put up with her having unfettered access to my home. The locks have now been re-keyed, as I warned her last night. She'll just have to deal with getting her stuff when I'm available to let her in, not whenever

Comments

[gabstaff]

sorry you have to go thru this. :(

[ed209uardo]

... You and me both...

[explodingalice]

Ditto what gabstaff said, but I think you've done the right thing. You need your own space.

[ed209uardo]

... At least I didn't see her tonight. We'll see how tomorrow goes...

[bitmap]

Having been through something like this before, you did exactly as I did.
Changing the locks for me was also a psychological separation, to know that she couldn't just walk in and out of my life whenever she felt like it, so to speak.

[ed209uardo]

... Yeah, it truly does make a difference. Although I don't know yet whether the pluses will at least balance out the minuses...