The only reason you were told that only rick couldnt come was because Mike had already told us earlier that he couldnt and we had already said, "Meh, its just one person," like you orginally felt, then other people dropped out and we basically thought it would be better to postpone.
I know you didn't know anything about Bri and stuff and you're not a mind-reader, but I just wanted to let you know there was more going on behind the scenes.
I am sorry that you can't remember birthdays. Jon has a hard time too, I remind him or write it down. Maybe it will help to remember birthdays by imagining how you would feel if all your friends always forgot them. Its not that they don't love you, but that their human. That's the conclusion Jon has drawn. Since I have told people, no one except Yank has offered to do anything for a missed birthday. I am not blaming you, but you are a girl, and logically, (lol) we are much better at planning events than the boys are. See the thing is about everyone forgetting Jon's birthday is I am hurt on his behalf. Jon does so much for all of us with D&D and is such a wonderful person that I can't feel bummed out that no one remembered him.
As for the feeling isolated: My home phone number is 857-1892. You can call the house anytime you want, I am always home. You can leave a message on our voice mail or send Jon a text. "get Lee to call me" and he will call me up and tell me. Minimal effort for you. Trust me, -I- know how it feels to be isolated in the middle of Alderhole with no friends nearby and no car:(
As for WoW, yeah, I do play a lot. But there have ebeen a lot of other things I have been doing. I think that saying "Well there's no point in doing something -now- because she'll be playing WoW." is a bit of a cop-out. I would drop a game for a friend in a heartbeat. You might be logical as hell but that doesn't always mean your logic is flawless. The reason I have been ending things early for WoW is because the only time we can ever really get to do things (instances) is in the evenings and Bri is not a night owl like us so otherwise we cant do stuff with him there. We have invited you to come play with us on numerous occasions, but you chose to play with your co-workers instead.
Another thing is that Jon and I have been feeling really burned out on D&D. He is tired of DMing, I take a long time to ever get anything prepared for D&D. A LONG time lol. Because I know I hate making an ongoing effort I would rather prepare like an entire campaign in the beginning. That being said, we have honestly and truthfully been becoming bored with D&D. When you are the ones to always put in all the work, come up with all the ideas, you eventually burn out on it.
I know you didn't know anything about Bri and stuff and you're not a mind-reader, but I just wanted to let you know there was more going on behind the scenes.
I am sorry that you can't remember birthdays. Jon has a hard time too, I remind him or write it down. Maybe it will help to remember birthdays by imagining how you would feel if all your friends always forgot them. Its not that they don't love you, but that their human. That's the conclusion Jon has drawn. Since I have told people, no one except Yank has offered to do anything for a missed birthday. I am not blaming you, but you are a girl, and logically, (lol) we are much better at planning events than the boys are. See the thing is about everyone forgetting Jon's birthday is I am hurt on his behalf. Jon does so much for all of us with D&D and is such a wonderful person that I can't feel bummed out that no one remembered him.
As for the feeling isolated: My home phone number is 857-1892. You can call the house anytime you want, I am always home. You can leave a message on our voice mail or send Jon a text. "get Lee to call me" and he will call me up and tell me. Minimal effort for you. Trust me, -I- know how it feels to be isolated in the middle of Alderhole with no friends nearby and no car:(
As for WoW, yeah, I do play a lot. But there have ebeen a lot of other things I have been doing. I think that saying "Well there's no point in doing something -now- because she'll be playing WoW." is a bit of a cop-out. I would drop a game for a friend in a heartbeat. You might be logical as hell but that doesn't always mean your logic is flawless. The reason I have been ending things early for WoW is because the only time we can ever really get to do things (instances) is in the evenings and Bri is not a night owl like us so otherwise we cant do stuff with him there. We have invited you to come play with us on numerous occasions, but you chose to play with your co-workers instead.
Another thing is that Jon and I have been feeling really burned out on D&D. He is tired of DMing, I take a long time to ever get anything prepared for D&D. A LONG time lol. Because I know I hate making an ongoing effort I would rather prepare like an entire campaign in the beginning. That being said, we have honestly and truthfully been becoming bored with D&D. When you are the ones to always put in all the work, come up with all the ideas, you eventually burn out on it.
Ok so thats basically it.
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