Jan 09, 2011 16:00
Can I only pick one???
I have decided I get two!
I really love that I am really hell bent on doing pretty much whatever I want, whenever I want, if I really want to do it. I just don't care. It took my Mom inti her 40's to feel like she could be her, do her own thing, and not be worried about what other people think. I spend very little time worrying about what other people think. I think I have her to thank for this. You can't please everyone all the time. You probably cannot please them even half of the time... so do whatever you want that makes you happy, and your being happy will make others happy too. The only time I find this frustrating is when I can't do what I want to do because it infringes on what someone else wants to do. This happens with Neil and I sometimes. BUT, then I go to NS!
The second one is, I really am nobody's fool. (Occasionally I will play it if I feel that it may benefit me.) I grew up in a bar. There is no better lesson on human nature then that. (Also no better way to know the words to every song in the 80's and 90's that is worth knowing. Yes, I love Cher, Madonna, and Bob Seger... No I don't care what you think.) Between the dynamics of Mom and Terry, STAFF, and customers... it was an education all itself. I also lived alone at a young age in many different situations. It all comes in handy with interactions and relationships now... I smell bullshit from a long distance.
i-kick-ass,
30 days of truth