well that just happened
So i've been driving myself with a whip this last week doing every chore, cooking every meal, doing even those things others said they would do and routinely don't, and ignoring my health both physical and mental to do it. Today i was thanked for stepping up and doing my share. well there goes the reenforcing of negative patterns. oh and the reason i haven't talked with the person about it is because it will either make them angry which will be worse or hurt them which would hurt their productivity and it is midterms.