A question for the masses

[eabhaciar]

Why is it that if you're a single woman and you're tired youre not allowed to be tired or somehow your tired isnt compareable to spmeone elses? So tired that you could start bawling for being tired but not be able to take a nap. But heaven forbid that you mention this to anyone. Especially anyone with a significant other, engaged or married.

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[tattoo_dreamer]

I can feel your pain - not entirely, since I don't have a full house and yard to maintain, or two fur babies to take care of, but I understand the rest. I have worked with people who, to my face, would tell me I didn't need the time off because I didn't have any kids or someone at home waiting for me for a holiday. I looked them in the eye and told them that doesn't mean I don't deserve some time off - even without a husband and kids, I may still want to see family or friends. I'm not an isolated island in the world.

It would be easy to say don't let it get to you, just let it roll off and take the time anyway, but you care about people and so it's not so easy to do. But I am here, sending you good energy and electronic hugs *BIG HUGE HUGS* and if you ever start to waiver about taking a day off because you NEED TO RECHARGE, imagine me in your head waving pom poms and saying, "Go Shanna Go! Go Shanna Go!"

The Tuzi gives you full permission to take a day if you need it - we all need to recharge ourselves sometimes. I'm just a phone call or text away if you ever need me!

[eabhaciar]

Tuzi I need a month off especially after the accident. But hopefully I'll have some help. I've got to meet a possible tennant for the spare bedroom. Here's hoping things go well.