Resolutions for 2009

Dec 29, 2008 23:25

Edited: 30 Dec

Ok, time of the year again. To set new goals for myself to work towards!

1) To lead a healthier lifestyle 
Yes, it's the same old resolution. e only difference is, i now have a very EAGER and DEDICATED "trainer" plus her bf, who's the real fitness trainer haha and a bunch of supportive colleagues to help me pull this off!

The badminton shall continue. So shall the walks and weights training at e Park Connector at my place. So shall the night swimming. and the horrid "clean" meals...haha all for better health! You can do it Daphne!

Target: To lose 20kg by 31 Dec 2009 (ok ok i know i earlier said 30kg, that's what's needed for me to reach my ideal healthy BMI, but i figured i better be realistic lar hor? Afterall, they say it's no gd to lose all too rapidly, bad for health and bad for skin too haha apparently there'll be too much loose skin..eeyer)

2) To Read MORE
2005: 0 books
2006: 1 book
2007: 1.5 books
2008: 3 books
2009: 4 books

Oh god, that number is increasing yr after yr, this is getting more and more challenging. hmm...maybe next yr, i gotta change this resolution haha

3) To continue to Travel
Don't think i can go too many places in the upcoming year. Better save for the rainy day. Afterall, my show is in June so from now till then, i cant take long leave to be away. Then after that gotta do closing. Then later part of the year unlikely to be "free" cos might get arrowed to do Airshow summit, that happens in early Feb 2010.

so i shall only aim to travel to AT LEAST Taiwan. This trip has been postponed for the longest time ever. Time to fulfill our promise to mummy dearest. and i really want to go there too...

4) To find a life partner
Ok this is a REALLY freaking old resolution. That just doesnt seem to make progress. The ad is already out, i've alr 公开招亲! Moo moo say i have too many criteria that's just too hard to find someone that matches it. My response to him was that my teachers taught me to aim for the stars, so that if i shd fall, i fall among the trees. so yes, i'm still hopeful for that perfect, almost-impossible man to appear.

but my dear frens who happen to read this, this doesnt mean i'm shutting out anyone that doesn't fit e bill haha. i'm still open to close recommendations! so you know what to do lar, huh. haha

5) To continue upgrading myself
As usual, I aim to learn something new every year...
2006: Sign Language
2007: Air Weaponry
2008: Blading, Sign Language BS2, Archery
2009: ?

haven't decided what yet. considering the following:
1. Gu Zheng
2. Cycling
3. Dancing - jazz / tap / ballroom?
4. Squash
5. Tennis

6) To be a better daughter, to be more filial, to be more family-oriented
I decided that last yr's resolution of being a better person was too broad and too "saintly" to be attained easily in a yr. So i decided i shall take it a step at a time, improve area by area.

so for 2009, i shall start with Family. To spend more time with people i love and love me unconditionally. To spend more time with Ah Ma, she's really getting very old already. To spend more time with mummy, bring her out more often, enjoy life, enjoy good food. To help out more with the household chores. To scream at her less hehe...sometimes just cant help it lar...scream at her also for her good mah...sometimes she's really so stubborn i cant talk calm sense to her haha.

7) To be a happier person, to be more forgiving and forgeting!
i think it's self explanatory. Someone told me that only after you learn to forgive and forget, you'll then relieve yourself of the burden and become a happier person.

Ok that's about it i guess. As usual, never planned for anything for my career. I guess for now it'll remain quite the same for a while, be grateful that i still have a job...heh. maybe after next year's appraisal, i shall see how it goes, for now im happy earning what im earning, doing what im doing, status quo is gd, for now =p.

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