the inevitable [hendrix perm] christmas update.
so... for christmas... i got an acoustic guitar... the same exact pedal pink floyd used in breath [mxr phase 90] and an ibanez stompbox... so i'm satisfied... on christmas eve my controller broke... about 4 hours before i got starwars battlefront 2... i was so pissed... but most of all i found out my mom started smoking again... which is really funny... apparently my mom lies alot... this is what happened. i got caught smoking awhile ago... along time ago really... but anyway... apparently mom started drinking some wine to help her relax cause she was so pissed... mom claims to never ever ever drink enough to get drunk... but apparently after she drank "some" wine, her thought process was impaired enough for her to get a pack of cigarettes and smoke enough to get addicted again... so... basically... SHE WAS PRETTY DAMN DRUNK! hahahahaha lying fuck... i don't really care... it's funny as hell actually... adam opened a drawer in the kitchen and mom was like GET OUT OF THERE RIGHT NOW, uh i mean... that's a christmas suprise... and then she stuck the pack of cigs in her pocket and ran to her room... it was kinda like "cool... my mom's giving me cigs for christmas" in hindsight... i guess i'd been bad so i was supposed to substitute the ashes for coal or something... but my mom didn't actually ever give the "christmas suprise" so yeah... anyway that was the highlight of christmas... right now i'm at ryan's... the best way in the world to make sara unpissed off is to
Step 1: piss her off
step 2: try to avoid talking to her for the rest of the day in order to keep the argument from progressing to be more serious
step 3: call her the next day and be the nicest person in the world... be so nice that it startles her... seriously be nicer than you've ever been ever ever ever for like fifteen minutes then go back to being the regular nice and or semi nice person you usually are... i hope this works more than once...
you have to set aside the need to get the last word and just be nice... that's the secret to truly winning in my opinion the only way you can win an argument with a girl is to make her feel as if she won... it's the self satisfaction that matters in the end... she may not know and admit that you won but you know you did and that's what matters...
final note... in the end it's not about winning... i guess it's about... not fighting in the first place. which is gonna happen everyonce in a while but... you gotta deal
Step 1: piss her off
step 2: try to avoid talking to her for the rest of the day in order to keep the argument from progressing to be more serious
step 3: call her the next day and be the nicest person in the world... be so nice that it startles her... seriously be nicer than you've ever been ever ever ever for like fifteen minutes then go back to being the regular nice and or semi nice person you usually are... i hope this works more than once...
you have to set aside the need to get the last word and just be nice... that's the secret to truly winning in my opinion the only way you can win an argument with a girl is to make her feel as if she won... it's the self satisfaction that matters in the end... she may not know and admit that you won but you know you did and that's what matters...
final note... in the end it's not about winning... i guess it's about... not fighting in the first place. which is gonna happen everyonce in a while but... you gotta deal