Old friends
A few times in life you have a friend, you see sometimes oft, sometimes not for years, but every time you do meet, you just go on were you stopped last time.
Rita is such a friend, Ed knows from the age of 18 and me 22. Alas she now lives in Sweden, but the kids are in Holland still.
For family visit and medical resons she is in Holland for about a month, and Thursday she suddenly was there.
So I called Ed inmedeately out of bed and we had a wonderful few hours.
I do admire her bravery, while now in a wheelchair, she still goes on and on and...
The only thing I did not liked that day was that Ed finally spoke out loud (except to me) that he thinks life has been enough for him, it is getting to harsh, and all functions do fail on him more and more.
Well, all we can do is go on with loving and caring, the final decision is his. (or our creators)not mine.
It does not make life more easy.
But love stays, and that has no measure...
Rita is such a friend, Ed knows from the age of 18 and me 22. Alas she now lives in Sweden, but the kids are in Holland still.
For family visit and medical resons she is in Holland for about a month, and Thursday she suddenly was there.
So I called Ed inmedeately out of bed and we had a wonderful few hours.
I do admire her bravery, while now in a wheelchair, she still goes on and on and...
The only thing I did not liked that day was that Ed finally spoke out loud (except to me) that he thinks life has been enough for him, it is getting to harsh, and all functions do fail on him more and more.
Well, all we can do is go on with loving and caring, the final decision is his. (or our creators)not mine.
It does not make life more easy.
But love stays, and that has no measure...