Dawn of the Bridezilla
In answer to the question as to "Why don't you write in your livejournal anymore?", the answer is simple. I have not found much worth writing about. The marriage is steady, family is still ok and there are some painful things that I have not had the energy or ability to write about yet.
On a good note, Richard and I will be celebrating our 5 year anniversary next year with actually finally having our wedding. We didn't want nor could afford a wedding when we first got hitched, and both of us are very realistic about the odds of us staying married. Also I know a friend of a friend that ended up being broken up within the first year of their marriage. They had a lovely and very expensive wedding that they are both still paying for even after their divorce.
OUCH.
Since our 5 year isn't until December 10, 2007 this gives us plenty of time to plan out everything. I have picked out all but one of my bridemaids (the last being M.I.A) and everyone else has accepted. I am trying my best to include everyone in my bridal party in the choices that are being made. I have seen that "Bridezilla" show and see what happens when brides turn ugly and do NOT want to become one.
On a good note, Richard and I will be celebrating our 5 year anniversary next year with actually finally having our wedding. We didn't want nor could afford a wedding when we first got hitched, and both of us are very realistic about the odds of us staying married. Also I know a friend of a friend that ended up being broken up within the first year of their marriage. They had a lovely and very expensive wedding that they are both still paying for even after their divorce.
OUCH.
Since our 5 year isn't until December 10, 2007 this gives us plenty of time to plan out everything. I have picked out all but one of my bridemaids (the last being M.I.A) and everyone else has accepted. I am trying my best to include everyone in my bridal party in the choices that are being made. I have seen that "Bridezilla" show and see what happens when brides turn ugly and do NOT want to become one.